- Aug 6, 2013
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Background:I met this girl while playing in my adult soccer league back on the last Sunday of October. We chatted and joked around a little and I saw her later that day. I did not see her again Nov. 22 where I was able to chat with her a lot more and she was friendly. There is no doubt in my mind that I sincerely like her as more than friends (even though I don’t know here well) and am into her. Not sure if there is mutual interest on her part (she seemed happy that I made effort to come by and talk to her and responded happily when I told her I would look for her again the next time there were games). I just know how I feel and I need at some point to step up, be brave and ask her out in some way.
My question is with all of these fuzzy warm feelings of attraction for her that I feel (feelings I have not had for any woman in a long time) and my hope desires and prayers that we somehow date and start a relationship, how can I discern between these feelings that could be Satan attacking me in a weak spot, being misled by my own feelings or desires, or God/Holy Spirit leading me to pursue something with her given I have a strong desire to date, be in a relationship and get married someday.
thanks for any advice. God bless you
My question is with all of these fuzzy warm feelings of attraction for her that I feel (feelings I have not had for any woman in a long time) and my hope desires and prayers that we somehow date and start a relationship, how can I discern between these feelings that could be Satan attacking me in a weak spot, being misled by my own feelings or desires, or God/Holy Spirit leading me to pursue something with her given I have a strong desire to date, be in a relationship and get married someday.
thanks for any advice. God bless you