I'm not debating, I'm trying to understand.
How do you interpret the passage about the morning after Gethsemane where Jesus rubukes Peter who draws sword saying "those who live by the sword, die by the sword" and then heals the man's ear? Jesus's words about turning the other cheek amd giving your cloak as well?
Jesus was the
Messiah.
He had to die a sacrificial death to take away the sins of humanity.
Peter's well-intentioned attempt to defend Him was misdirected, since preventing Jesus' death would have left us all in sin.
However, I am not the Messiah; neither are my family and friends.
Our sacrificial deaths will not save anyone, including ourselves.
Therefore, my wife and I carry our guns, but hope we never have to use them.
If a person lives a life of violence and lawlessness, they can expect to die violently.
This life describes the
criminal, not the law-abiding defender.
I used to struggle with this "turn the other cheek" passage also, but I learned the hard way that Christian ethics are much more complicated than surrender.
If a person has others depending on them for protection, provision, or other needs, then that person has a very limited - possibly non-existent - right to passively surrender and not fight.
Should a mother with small children blithely allow a kidnapper to abduct one of her children, who will probably be sexually abused and killed? Should a husband tell a home invader to take whatever he wants and go, trusting that a criminal will stop there? Should a soldier tell his fellow soldiers "Hey, I'm through with this killing stuff. You guys go on without me"?
We may (or may not) have the right to not fight in our own defense when no one else depends on us. We DON'T have that right when others depend on us. Our passiveness puts them in danger.