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So I actually haven't posted here in a rather long time besides an introduction. You can read through it if you'd like to get where I'm coming from and why I need help here.
I guess you could say I'm new to this Christian thing besides having been baptized at 14.
Basically, I went from strong atheism/agnosticism in my high school days (alternated between the two for some time) before experiencing some serious depression/anxiety issues among other things, and I guess somewhere in that time, I ended up coming back here (the faith, I mean). Of course, given my predisposition to over-analysis, rationality and whatnot that I so highly valued back then and still do, combined with both internal and external factors, I'm barely holding on here.
I tell myself I believe because I don't believe in extreme coincidences in regards to life or the origins of life itself (not that I don't believe in the Big Bang or evolution and all, I just don't think the former was really a matter of mere chance in space and time, and nothing more), and having at least a belief in a higher power at the time, I figured from historical evidence that I researched for a while that Jesus was definitely a big part of things. But I'm facing a dilemma where I feel I might've just been trying too hard to believe because I desperately needed good-enough answers for my predicament, or some kind of upside to look to. That's something I had heard and discussed a lot when talking about religion in general some years ago and am wondering if that's what's happening to me, despite doing my homework. I'm not sure if anyone can really help or comment on that one, but figured I'd put it out there nonetheless.
So, from time to time, and I know this should be a daily thing, I try prayer. I don't really know what it is I want to say beforehand, except asking for assistance in some form of pointing me in the right direction to really consolidate any faith I can have. But either I don't know how to look for an answer to prayers or it just isn't working, for whatever reason there may be. That obviously isn't doing much to help my situation, but provided this is the first time I've really tried praying in my life, maybe I'm messing up somewhere.
Apart from mental health being an obstacle, and possibly reading up too much on the rapidly deteriorating world in terms of culture, politics, wars and the like, I think maybe the aforementioned subjects are what I wanted to touch upon. I don't know if I worded this enough in a way that could help any of you help me, as I'm not really good at relaying my thoughts or opening up anymore like I used to be about things. I'm really trying my best to give this a shot and perhaps see results, but the doubter in me is really holding on tight, whether for righteous or wrongful reasons, I can't tell. I can't really talk to anyone I know IRL because just about everyone I know is a generally militant anti-theist that might implode upon hearing the word "God". So, strangers of the Internet, I guess you're my best shot at this thing for now.
I guess you could say I'm new to this Christian thing besides having been baptized at 14.
Basically, I went from strong atheism/agnosticism in my high school days (alternated between the two for some time) before experiencing some serious depression/anxiety issues among other things, and I guess somewhere in that time, I ended up coming back here (the faith, I mean). Of course, given my predisposition to over-analysis, rationality and whatnot that I so highly valued back then and still do, combined with both internal and external factors, I'm barely holding on here.
I tell myself I believe because I don't believe in extreme coincidences in regards to life or the origins of life itself (not that I don't believe in the Big Bang or evolution and all, I just don't think the former was really a matter of mere chance in space and time, and nothing more), and having at least a belief in a higher power at the time, I figured from historical evidence that I researched for a while that Jesus was definitely a big part of things. But I'm facing a dilemma where I feel I might've just been trying too hard to believe because I desperately needed good-enough answers for my predicament, or some kind of upside to look to. That's something I had heard and discussed a lot when talking about religion in general some years ago and am wondering if that's what's happening to me, despite doing my homework. I'm not sure if anyone can really help or comment on that one, but figured I'd put it out there nonetheless.
So, from time to time, and I know this should be a daily thing, I try prayer. I don't really know what it is I want to say beforehand, except asking for assistance in some form of pointing me in the right direction to really consolidate any faith I can have. But either I don't know how to look for an answer to prayers or it just isn't working, for whatever reason there may be. That obviously isn't doing much to help my situation, but provided this is the first time I've really tried praying in my life, maybe I'm messing up somewhere.
Apart from mental health being an obstacle, and possibly reading up too much on the rapidly deteriorating world in terms of culture, politics, wars and the like, I think maybe the aforementioned subjects are what I wanted to touch upon. I don't know if I worded this enough in a way that could help any of you help me, as I'm not really good at relaying my thoughts or opening up anymore like I used to be about things. I'm really trying my best to give this a shot and perhaps see results, but the doubter in me is really holding on tight, whether for righteous or wrongful reasons, I can't tell. I can't really talk to anyone I know IRL because just about everyone I know is a generally militant anti-theist that might implode upon hearing the word "God". So, strangers of the Internet, I guess you're my best shot at this thing for now.