Honor Your Father and Mother-The Commandment and the Law

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Let us visit for the moment the Elementary Doctrine of Christ, which for al intents and purposes is the doctrine from the Old Testament which Hebrews 6:1 tells us to leave, and let us consider the Commandment and the Law of honoring your father and mother. The Commandment, in Exodus 20:12, says “Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you.” This is one of the Ten Commandments that Moses receives from God in the Tablets. Also consider Deuteronomy 27:16 which says, “Cursed be anyone who dishonors his father or his mother.”

At first glance, the two seem to be saying two different things. The Commandment implies that it is to our practical benefit that we honor our parents. Honoring our parents involves listening to them, for after all, they have lived their lives to the point where what they’ve learned and experienced in their lives have enabled them to come to raise us in an upright manner.

Some may say there are parents who treat their kids rotten. This may be true in some instances, but their children, in their youth and inexperience are not in a position to judge how their parents raise them; that is up to older people.

As for the Law, it seems that Deuteronomy 27:16 implies we should honor our parents not for our own benefit, so much as for their benefit from our respecting them. But consider that we would be cursed if we don’t honor our parents. Seems this law is for our benefit too, inasmuch as if we don’t heed what our parents have told us, or respect them enough to follow their example, we would not be honoring them and we would therefore be cursed.

It is interesting that in Mark 7:5-13, Jesus and the Pharisees and scribes engage in a discourse concerning God’s Law, and the traditions the Pharisees and scribes abide by which they expect others to do the same. Jesus points out that they are engaging in traditions which are of men and are contrary to God. In Verse 5, they ask Jesus “Why do your disciples not walk according to the tradition of the elders, but eat with defiled hands?” Jesus calls them out on that by effectively asking them, via Verses 9-13, ‘And why do you hold to your tradition of men, and not abide by God, by enabling the children to say to their parents that whatever they would give their parents, such as honor, they give to God, whereas the Commandment says to honor their parents?' And to be sure, this isn’t an either-or, since the rest of the Old Testament plainly implies we are to honor God, and honoring our parents is one way of honoring God.

What does the New Testament say about honoring our parents? Well, Ephesians 6:1-3 says, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ‘Honor your father and mother’ (this is the first commandment with a promise), ‘that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.’” Imagine that! This passage is quoting the Commandment stated above, which is part of the Elementary Doctrine of Christ! I guess it’s hard to leave the Elementary Doctrine of Christ altogether, after all.
 
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Hebrews 6:1-3 implies that the Hebrew readers are immature and have failed to grow at an expected rate. They need to “build again” on the foundation of Christ and re-learn the basics of the faith in spiritual applicaction. Anything connected to law and not transformed to where Christ is seated in application is falling back. However, the verses you are stating are not concerned with the 10 commandments. Honoring Father and Mother is what God and Wisdom is to us in that sense.
 
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What does the New Testament say about honoring our parents? Well, Ephesians 6:1-3 says, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ‘Honor your father and mother’ (this is the first commandment with a promise), ‘that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.’” Imagine that! This passage is quoting the Commandment stated above, which is part of the Elementary Doctrine of Christ! I guess it’s hard to leave the Elementary Doctrine of Christ altogether, after all.

Amen.

And that means the TEN are included in the moral "law of God" written on the heart in the New Covenant of Jer 31:31-34 also in Heb 8:6-12.

And it helps us see why it is that the TEN are affirmed in
the Baptist Confession of Faith - sectn 19
the Westminster Confession of Faith - sectn 19
the Catholic Catechism
Dies Domini by Pope John Paul II
D.L. Moody
R.C.Sproul
C.H. Spurgeon
etc.
 
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Hebrews 6:1-3 implies that the Hebrew readers are immature and have failed to grow at an expected rate. They need to “build again” on the foundation of Christ and re-learn the basics of the faith in spiritual applicaction. Anything connected to law and not transformed to where Christ is seated in application is falling back. However, the verses you are stating are not concerned with the 10 commandments. Honoring Father and Mother is what God and Wisdom is to us in that sense.

Heb 11 holds up the giants of faith in the OT as the examples to be followed by all NT Christians.

Heb 6-9 moves the reader to what it calls the more "advanced concepts" related to the High Priestly ministry of Christ in the heavenly sanctuary and the atonement.
 
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