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Hip seems to be getting a fracture/needs replacing

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I'm pretty terrified right now, as I've got so much break through pain, I'm pretty sure its got a fracture or a break going on.

The femoral head has cysts covering it like moon craters all over, and this means all of these dark spots on my x-ray are weakened bone.

2 days ago, the pain when trying to stand was so bad I c/n stand and go and get dinner.

I've taken 2 pain pills and its breaking right through it in a sharp and startling way.

This has never happened before.
 

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Everyone I've known who has had a hip replacement has been glad of it. Better to do it sooner than later, especially with the pain you're having, but, of course, your surgeon will advise you.

Good luck with this - let us know how you fare.
 
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See a doctor and find out!

What ever is the problem, you'll be better equipped to make decisions - including major surgery or 'dealing with it' when you know.

Certainly one has to include God in all these sorts of things. But without knowing the problem, you don't even know for what specifically to pray. God does respond to prayers like "Please fix whatever it is!" but on the other hand, God does not endorse ignorance.
 
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Rounding up the friends from church to be on my "team" as the doctor told me, so that I can get help now and post operatively.

Will have get key copies so people can check on me.

Ordering food & water/juices from amazon to be delivered right to door

Doctor told me my hip is a goner at this point and hes already working on the paperwork for surgery.

Its end-stage arthritis if you will, with DNA playing a part as well as years of being gymnast and coach and involved in dance.

My doctor tried to cheer me up by telling me that Olympian Mary Lou Retton had hers replaced as well, no doubt due to all of her years of pounding in gymnastics training, especially in vault and tumbling.

I'm sure she knows how much happiness the sport brought to her and doesn't regret anything.

I don't regret gymnastics either!
 
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Well there is no cartilage or lining left and its bone on bone, which is severely irritating the femoral head, leaving areas of weakened bone that look like moon craters on xray.

They will saw off this femur head and put a titanium rod down my femur, which will have the new femur head on top or it, made of ceramic.

Many people I know say that you recover quickly when the surgeon goes in through the front of your hip.

Anterior Approach.
 
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When will this be done? I hear that they have you up and walking around almost immediately - will this be the case with you?

It's good that you have people to look in on you. That has to be reassuring.
 
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When will this be done? I hear that they have you up and walking around almost immediately - will this be the case with you?

It's good that you have people to look in on you. That has to be reassuring.

Hello and thanks for stopping by and chatting. It sounds like you might know someone who has had a THR and it went well for them.

I thought I was going to need to go to surgery right away today, but the nurse I called from home told me it's only an exacerbation of arthritis and that to hang in there as It will eventually settle down a little.

So after a really bad week end, it's just a tad off of the bite or edge off of it.

But it's still raw pain and weakening bone screaming out at me every day now, and all day.

I have to wait to see the surgeon until next week because I had dental surgery a few weeks ago, and any and all dental procedures introduces bacteria into the body.

That meant for me a 6-8 week waiting period before any major surgery.

Its my job right now to prepare my home for when I come back.

Like moving things from shelves to counter top level so I can easily reach them, and making sure that my bed sheets and blankets are clean before I leave, bc they can introduce bacteria if not washed before you go to surgery.

I've got to have some furniture removed and help with getting off the floor any and all trip and fall risks, like electrical cords.

I've also got to put some toiletries into zip lock baggies too and put together a small hospital bag with other toiletries, socks and lots of magazines or books to read.

I've also got to have lots of snacks and juices and waters by my bed stand too in case I'm too wiped to go to the kitchen.

Apparently, I will not be needing any undergarments, as you want nothing over the incision on the front of your hip, as well as they will probably have-me on a catheter.

and then there are lots of pre-op tests and unfortunately they make me go to different offices.

they got to test your ekg, urine and blood, then also do a chest x-ray.

they have a doctor or a nurse who will carefully go over what meds you should and should not take before surgery too.

and finally, its very nice to have a merry band of older church ladies who make it their mission in life to serve the community.

They are the angels among us.
 
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will need to see a pulmonary specialist first and do a sleep study too as well as pre-surgery testing....

getting all my ducks in a row

but also am blessed to have others like my maintenance man who got badly injured by a fall, around me, and we two try and help each other.

I have splints as well as therapy putty for hand exercises and he had hurt his wrists by placing his hands out to break his fall.

I showed him how to do some of the exercises.

He has a hard time holding china plates for meals, so I got him paper plates, and he liked that.

He loaned me some videos to help out while we both deal with some painful issues.

Just be nice to people and it's so cool how they come around.

We need to be a healing community here on planet earth.

Help each other, love each other, it's surprising me how easy it turns out to do this kind of outreach to people I don't know too well.
 
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not getting in anytime soon, as surgeons schedule is all booked up til April....

really the biggest challenge of my life
have difficulty getting dressed, can no longer do my laundry or even walk to the corner

it's a big challenge to keep doing something so that my muscles don't keep atrophying.

it's scary now
 
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My surgeon says that he will restore to me the ability to walk!

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Hi there :wave:
I have seen you in the Golden Eagles 50+ forum spreading cheer; that is so nice of you!
I also see you are a mod in training; I was on staff back in 2010 for a year or so, and have been active/coordinating on the Teams over the years (just returned from an extended LOA).
My son had a hip replacement last year and did well; he is 36 with cerebral palsy that just affects his legs.
They will provide home nursing and rehab as you recover, unless you are alone...then you may need a facility until you get on your feet.
Back in the 90's I was a Visiting Nurse ;) now retired.
Praying for you going forward for strength, hope, comfort, and healing.
God bless you :pray:
 
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Praying for you going forward for strength, hope, comfort, and healing.
God bless you

shedding a tear right now, as that is such a kind and thoughtful post. Needed the uplifting too. God bless you!
 
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It's so tough waiting...in pain to boot, but you seem like a strong, faith filled lady ...take it one day at a time with His grace :angel:

Not so tough most days, it seems. I really really want and desire to be closer to Him. I don't know what prayers to say each morning and how to have quiet time with him. I cannot think up original prayers for some reason. I think It would be helpful to read some printed prayers.

The surgeons busy until April, and some days I have to crawl around because I cannot bear any weight. I don't know how to survive until another whole month like this.

God bless
 
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He will get you through; His timing is perfect.
When the words won't come just sit quietly in His Presence; He knows.
I will be keeping you in special prayer.
You are never truly alone :groupray:
Thanks; God bless you too!
 
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