Hello brothers and sisters. I am currently a 22 year old struggling with OCD and God's mercy and wrath. I started making vows around the age of 16 and usually I typically make it around asking for punishment for committing a sin and breaking the vow as an incentive to keep it. Most recently I've asked to be killed in a plane crash if I didn't stop doing sexual sin after vowing not to do it again. I think even after repenting you can still experience punishment for doing the sin. The problem is my friends are really trying to push to go on a trip at the end of August and I don't know what to tell them. I'm afraid. I can't just tell them since we planned this (didn't know we would be flying) and now I feel constricted. I don't want to end like Anais and Sapphira or the corinthians eatings the lords supper wrongly (both killed because of sin) but at the same time I'm being told to trust God's mercy. I'm so confused. Some advice and prayer would be helpful thanks.
Hi, Sonnessa. It sounds like you have a guilty heart like I do...not easy to deal with at times. One of my favorite scriptures to go to when feeling guilty or condemned is in Hebrews 10:
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11 Day after day every priest stands and performs his religious duties; again and again he offers the same sacrifices, which can never take away sins.
12 But when this priest had offered for all time one sacrifice for sins, he sat down at the right hand of God,
13 and since that time he waits for his enemies to be made his footstool.
14 For by one sacrifice he has made perfect forever those who are being made holy."
What this reminds me of is that in God's view, because of the blood of Jesus, I am perfect. I don't need to cling to these things that can never take away sin...over and over. Jesus has done that. You may say in response, "I don't feel perfect." That's fine because you're
being made holy. That's going to be a life long process and no one gets it right 100% of the time.
I find that being reminded of how God actually views me provides a great starting point for dealing with my sin...and you DO need to deal with it. Not by making vows day after day that can never take away sin, but by confiding in other like-minded Christians...discipleship. When you feel like you're leaning towards sin, call someone and confess those temptations...pray together. Get the Holy Spirit involved. Avoid situations where that sin will be available. For instance, as a married man, I'm not going to go to a bar or club with "friends" just to look. That's asking for temptation. If your "friends" are influencing you like that then maybe it's time to evaluate what friendship should be to you?
Anyway, I'm rambling. Read Hebrews 10, Romans 7 & 8, Galatians 5...all those scriptures remind me of the freedom I have in Christ and how God REALLY views me.