Both of my husbands were in the Army (one was drafted) during the Vietnam war. The first went in as a conscientious objector, the second was a machine gunner. I am proud of both of them.
With regard to the Army, please tell us one thing about your husband that makes you proud.
Also, do you have children yet? If not, do you think you'll want to?
How do you feel about having children while he cannot be home?