- Aug 30, 2018
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I am a SAHM to two girls, 6 and 4. The issue I need help with is that every time we go to church, they seem to trash the place. I work the powerpoint every service and my husband is on the worship team, so we have practices, etc that they are basically unsupervised by an adult. I send them to the nursery so I will at least know where they are at. My husband is usually the one who goes to get them because I have severe anxiety and agoraphobia and just need to get out of the building after services. But last night we had Wed night church and they were back there and my 4 year old left school supplies (from her backpack that she brought) EVERYWHERE. I got a text from my pastors wife this morning about it.
I know that 1. I need to stop allowing them to take backpacks or anything else to church. But the bigger issue is, how can I teach them to respect others' property? They know they are supposed to clean up after themselves, etc. But I could really use some advice. I didn't grow up in a disciplined home. I'm totally winging the "christian parenting" thing and I have no idea what I'm doing. How can I make them listen to me and respect me and do what I say?
I know that 1. I need to stop allowing them to take backpacks or anything else to church. But the bigger issue is, how can I teach them to respect others' property? They know they are supposed to clean up after themselves, etc. But I could really use some advice. I didn't grow up in a disciplined home. I'm totally winging the "christian parenting" thing and I have no idea what I'm doing. How can I make them listen to me and respect me and do what I say?