Hello,
I am a recovering pot smoker and its taken me about a year to finally quit, and I've been clean for about 5 months now, but last week I picked it up again. This time its different, I can actually feel the sin burning inside me and it all accumulated and fell down on top of me last night.. My girlfriend and I had a small fight and I went home to smoke, but she called and said she wanted to come and stay the night, but I told her that I was in no condition to have company because of being high. She was astounded and let me off the phone..
So then later that night she emails me with the following words:
"you f***ing ba***rd, you are f***ing weak"
Now, mind you she is a non-believer and I myself am a struggling Christian. I believe in the lord as my saviour and Christ, but I have many struggles to overcome. However, hearing this from her is not very helpfull and makes me feel worse about giving in to my temptation..
In her mind, she is very stubborn and proud because of her own beliefs. She is an 'existenstialist', and takes people's action's very seriously and accountable. Plus, she doesn't believe in forgiveness, so this makes things very hard on my when I sin. I know that I am not perfect and have work to do in Christ, but she is not very supportive and almost makes me feel worse about myself..
Help please, what should I do? or say to her? I don't know I am really confused and sad right now. Please pray for me and for my girlfriend. She makes life for me very difficult and contradicting to the Christian beliefs that I was raised with. But I love her so much...
I am a recovering pot smoker and its taken me about a year to finally quit, and I've been clean for about 5 months now, but last week I picked it up again. This time its different, I can actually feel the sin burning inside me and it all accumulated and fell down on top of me last night.. My girlfriend and I had a small fight and I went home to smoke, but she called and said she wanted to come and stay the night, but I told her that I was in no condition to have company because of being high. She was astounded and let me off the phone..
So then later that night she emails me with the following words:
"you f***ing ba***rd, you are f***ing weak"
Now, mind you she is a non-believer and I myself am a struggling Christian. I believe in the lord as my saviour and Christ, but I have many struggles to overcome. However, hearing this from her is not very helpfull and makes me feel worse about giving in to my temptation..
In her mind, she is very stubborn and proud because of her own beliefs. She is an 'existenstialist', and takes people's action's very seriously and accountable. Plus, she doesn't believe in forgiveness, so this makes things very hard on my when I sin. I know that I am not perfect and have work to do in Christ, but she is not very supportive and almost makes me feel worse about myself..
Help please, what should I do? or say to her? I don't know I am really confused and sad right now. Please pray for me and for my girlfriend. She makes life for me very difficult and contradicting to the Christian beliefs that I was raised with. But I love her so much...