Well i never said I was pressuring her.
You don't need to say it; it comes across in your posts.
Can you not see it from my position?
It seems your position is that you think
you need to know if your friend has faith; you
need her to show that faith by good works and do the things that she says she is going to do. You seem to be personally offended if she does not do what she talks about doing and regard it as a lie. You're "tired of her talking about herself and everything BUT God" (post #7), you've claimed that she's lying to God and that
you need to confront her about it. You've said that she may be deaf, and I think there was somewhere you even said that she was thick.
Its not like im a fantastic christian who has it all together either. But in time of recovery, church is the best place to be when you feeling low.
Not necessarily.
The church may be like my former one; a group of people who didn't talk about their faith, have a Bible study group, offer to pray with you or have anything much in the way of fellowship. Friendly, yes; real Christian fellowship, no. If I was feeling low I didn't go to that church, I went to one that offered prayer ministry.
Your friend may not feel comfortable talking about private things, or she may have once plucked up the courage to try, only to find that the church couldn't help her/people dismissed her and just said "pray harder", or that they didn't want to listen to her, just get her to join them.
I'm glad that your belief is that if you are feeling low you can turn to God, and the church; but if someone doesn't believe that, you can't force it on them.
Many times you go to church and even if you dont even talk to anyone, being in His presence and listening to his Word is enough.
Yes, that may be YOUR experience; you can't expect everyone to think like this.