- Jun 18, 2002
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For those of you who have suffered through divorce...
I'd appreciate your advice, input, comments, prayers,,,etc.....
It's seems I'm destined for divorce after 17 years of
marriage to the one I thought I'd spend the rest of my
life with. We both have changed emotionally and can't
seem to reconcile our growing pains.
Past issues keep coming back to haunt us. Issues in the
past that just won't die. Forgiveness doesn't seem possible.
Mistakes & bad decisions seem to stick to you in life.
Right now, I have no clue how I'm going to deal with it.
The worst part is being away from our children. She sais
they'll adapt, but I'm not so sure of that.
I haven't felt much like a husband in quite some time,
but being a Dad is one of the greatest joys in my life.
I'm not sure how to cope with just seeing my children
occasionally. The thoughts of no longer having the
opportunity for our nightly rituals (a game of chess with
my 5 year old, basketball with my oldest son, chats with
my daughter). I just don't know how I'm going to adjust.
Your comments are welcomed.
I'd appreciate your advice, input, comments, prayers,,,etc.....
It's seems I'm destined for divorce after 17 years of
marriage to the one I thought I'd spend the rest of my
life with. We both have changed emotionally and can't
seem to reconcile our growing pains.
Past issues keep coming back to haunt us. Issues in the
past that just won't die. Forgiveness doesn't seem possible.
Mistakes & bad decisions seem to stick to you in life.
Right now, I have no clue how I'm going to deal with it.
The worst part is being away from our children. She sais
they'll adapt, but I'm not so sure of that.
I haven't felt much like a husband in quite some time,
but being a Dad is one of the greatest joys in my life.
I'm not sure how to cope with just seeing my children
occasionally. The thoughts of no longer having the
opportunity for our nightly rituals (a game of chess with
my 5 year old, basketball with my oldest son, chats with
my daughter). I just don't know how I'm going to adjust.
Your comments are welcomed.