As you may have guessed I am looking for some Christian advice.
Having said that I will give you a short idea of what's going on.
I have a senior who is 18 years old.
She has been up set with me because I made her get a job two weeks ago & I was going to give her my 19 year old college students car ( that I bought ) & buy another car for my 19 year old & I to share because my husband is driving my van because we sold his truck when we moved here 6 months ago. She literally cried when I made her drive her sisters car 3 times in one day & I told her I was signing the title over to her as soon as she got her lic. she only has her permit. She doesn't want to get her lic.
She has driven her bf car & never once cried about it.
She told her boyfriend she hated that car & it was ugly.
He told me she said that.
I said fine I will not give you a car then.
The single most disrespect any teen can do in her parents home is you guessed it have any kind of sexual encounter in your parents house & she know's this.
Ok she asked me if her boyfriend of two months could come over in the morning before he went to work I said no problem he is a nice enough guy he know's my view of sex. I point blank told him no bling, no fling. In not so nice words I might add. Told him she has waited 18 years or so I thought & wanted to wait for marriage...so I thought.
She said well he has been coming over but I just thought I would make sure it was okay with you if he comes over in the morning? I said sure.
Now yesterday morning I went out to my kitchen to make coffee & what do I see but her door wide open & them having at it. Shirts on but under her covers but none the less right next to her 15 year old sis's room & she has a 3 year old brother too who lives here!!!
This went on for long enough I made a half pot of coffee walked through 3 times as loud as I could & still they continued on!!!!
She is 18 & graduates in June.
She know's how I feel about this & did it right in my face!
What would you do?
I can not even look at her with out being very upset & uncomfortable in my own house now.
I just pray God gives me guidence. My 19 year old said Mom you would have kicked my u know what out!!!
She is right! I would....
Having said that I will give you a short idea of what's going on.
I have a senior who is 18 years old.
She has been up set with me because I made her get a job two weeks ago & I was going to give her my 19 year old college students car ( that I bought ) & buy another car for my 19 year old & I to share because my husband is driving my van because we sold his truck when we moved here 6 months ago. She literally cried when I made her drive her sisters car 3 times in one day & I told her I was signing the title over to her as soon as she got her lic. she only has her permit. She doesn't want to get her lic.
She has driven her bf car & never once cried about it.
She told her boyfriend she hated that car & it was ugly.
He told me she said that.
I said fine I will not give you a car then.
The single most disrespect any teen can do in her parents home is you guessed it have any kind of sexual encounter in your parents house & she know's this.
Ok she asked me if her boyfriend of two months could come over in the morning before he went to work I said no problem he is a nice enough guy he know's my view of sex. I point blank told him no bling, no fling. In not so nice words I might add. Told him she has waited 18 years or so I thought & wanted to wait for marriage...so I thought.
She said well he has been coming over but I just thought I would make sure it was okay with you if he comes over in the morning? I said sure.
Now yesterday morning I went out to my kitchen to make coffee & what do I see but her door wide open & them having at it. Shirts on but under her covers but none the less right next to her 15 year old sis's room & she has a 3 year old brother too who lives here!!!
This went on for long enough I made a half pot of coffee walked through 3 times as loud as I could & still they continued on!!!!
She is 18 & graduates in June.
She know's how I feel about this & did it right in my face!
What would you do?
I can not even look at her with out being very upset & uncomfortable in my own house now.
I just pray God gives me guidence. My 19 year old said Mom you would have kicked my u know what out!!!
She is right! I would....