First, I’m going to start with the fact that I simply just need prayers. That’ll help more than anything!
My boyfriend and I had been together for three years. I was under the impression that we were serious and all was well, but he decided to break up with me a couple weeks ago. He told me he wasn’t happy and hadn’t been in a month or so and he needed time and space. Then time and space turned into a breakup. He’d just bough some land a few months ago for us to put a house on.
The reason for the breakup was that I was ready for marriage and kids and he wasn’t. He said I was perfect in every way, but we want different things now. I was shocked and heartbroken. He has cried every time he’s seen me since the break up. Why? Our families are also shocked and upset. He says he loves me, but how?
I pray God is going to create something beautiful out of this.
I’ll add that he has been married before and it did not end well. Things happened that were beyond his control. Do you think the negativity from his first marriage is affecting this relationship?
My boyfriend and I had been together for three years. I was under the impression that we were serious and all was well, but he decided to break up with me a couple weeks ago. He told me he wasn’t happy and hadn’t been in a month or so and he needed time and space. Then time and space turned into a breakup. He’d just bough some land a few months ago for us to put a house on.
The reason for the breakup was that I was ready for marriage and kids and he wasn’t. He said I was perfect in every way, but we want different things now. I was shocked and heartbroken. He has cried every time he’s seen me since the break up. Why? Our families are also shocked and upset. He says he loves me, but how?
I pray God is going to create something beautiful out of this.
I’ll add that he has been married before and it did not end well. Things happened that were beyond his control. Do you think the negativity from his first marriage is affecting this relationship?
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