Hello,
I was wondering how I can heal from old hurts from my childhood. There is one thing that happened with my brother almost 10 years ago that hurt me as a little girl. He was much older than me and said something to me that was very hurtful to me. I never really talked much with him, and I'm not very close to him now (though on good terms).
For the longest time I thought that I had gotten over what happened. But a few years ago the pain felt just as raw as when it happened. Last night something triggered the memory, and I just broke down crying uncontrollably. I felt like a child again, experiencing it all over again.
I feel foolish because I'm in my twenties and it was long ago that this happened. I doubt my brother even remembers what he said. I don't even understand why what he said hurt me so much. But I just can't stand to have this haunting me.
I've tried thinking logically about it, telling myself, "Well it was so long ago; he didn't mean it the way I took it. It was a high stress moment." And so on. But it doesn't seem to help much.
What should I do? how can I be healed from this painful memory?
I was wondering how I can heal from old hurts from my childhood. There is one thing that happened with my brother almost 10 years ago that hurt me as a little girl. He was much older than me and said something to me that was very hurtful to me. I never really talked much with him, and I'm not very close to him now (though on good terms).
For the longest time I thought that I had gotten over what happened. But a few years ago the pain felt just as raw as when it happened. Last night something triggered the memory, and I just broke down crying uncontrollably. I felt like a child again, experiencing it all over again.
I feel foolish because I'm in my twenties and it was long ago that this happened. I doubt my brother even remembers what he said. I don't even understand why what he said hurt me so much. But I just can't stand to have this haunting me.
I've tried thinking logically about it, telling myself, "Well it was so long ago; he didn't mean it the way I took it. It was a high stress moment." And so on. But it doesn't seem to help much.
What should I do? how can I be healed from this painful memory?
Last edited: