white dove
(she's a) maniac
... someone's phone or email? If so, why? And how did you feel about it after? Did you confess to the person whose email/texts you looked at?
I tried to get into my ex-bf's email one time. We didn't have a very trusting relationship, and probably should have broken up before it got to this point. Anyway, I was wondering if he was communicating with this other woman, so I tried to get into his Yahoo! mail.
It backfired on me because I tried to get his password and it sent a note to his alternate email address. Then I had to immediately do damage control, basically by confessing to him that I'd tried to get into his email.
Strangely, he took it well enough. I'm not really sure why, but maybe by that time he had already given up on our relationship.
I'm going to be the lone ranger and say "yes, I have" to someone's phone. I would hope that I would never again have another reason to. I won't say that I'm sorry for it, or ashamed or that I do 7 hail mary's a night for it, but in a healthy relationship there is trust. Without trust, you have nothing. Hindsight is 20/20 and this is one of the red flags I blinded myself to.
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