I’ve been going out with my boyfriend officially for one month (today lol) but we’ve been dating for 6 months. We live quite far away from each other so only see each other once or twice a week. Last night I saw him for the first time in over a week as I’m just back from a work trip abroad and it was great to see him, we had some great conversation and updated each other on our lives/ walk with God etc. But then there was a natural silence as we kind of ran out of things to say so I was just smiling and enjoying his company and listening to the music of the restaurant and then he asked me what was wrong, I was a bit confused as I was having a great time! But he thought I looked disinterested and didn’t want to be there as I was looking at other people, looking at him then away from him and making faces. (I didn’t realise I did any of this!) so I apologised for making it seem that way and explained that I was having a good time, I just didn’t know what to say next. But he didn’t believe me and asked what really the problem was. I don’t think there was one but I said maybe because I’m not good at this (dating) as he is my first proper relationship and first person I’ve dated, he already knew this but seemed shocked that he really was the first and then he said he understood that’s why I was acting weird (altho I don’t feel like I was.) So I asked him if everything was okay on his end, thinking he had a problem with me but he said he was fine and everything was okay. (I also have a job interview today so he thought I was nervous for it and that’s why I was acting strange.)
So we talked some more and agreed everything was actually fine and then we held hands walking to the bus. I sent him a message saying thanks for the night as I had a great time but he hasn’t replied. He always sends me a good morning text which he didn’t do today so I’m assuming he’s still annoyed by the way I was acting last night even though he said things were fine. He’s ignoring me and I’m not sure what I can do? We’ve planned to meet up on Tuesday but I can’t bear not to hear from him until then, especially if he’s still mad. Do I just give him some space and wait until he replies?
Also how do I avoid this happening again? I do really like him but I’m not an overly touchy feely person (like holding hands, gazing into eyes) I’m trying to get better but I’m worried I’ve ruined it already. Any advice?
So we talked some more and agreed everything was actually fine and then we held hands walking to the bus. I sent him a message saying thanks for the night as I had a great time but he hasn’t replied. He always sends me a good morning text which he didn’t do today so I’m assuming he’s still annoyed by the way I was acting last night even though he said things were fine. He’s ignoring me and I’m not sure what I can do? We’ve planned to meet up on Tuesday but I can’t bear not to hear from him until then, especially if he’s still mad. Do I just give him some space and wait until he replies?
Also how do I avoid this happening again? I do really like him but I’m not an overly touchy feely person (like holding hands, gazing into eyes) I’m trying to get better but I’m worried I’ve ruined it already. Any advice?