Starcrystal
Sheep in Wolves clothing
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I was turned off to the religion of Christianity by being involved in strict Fundamentalist churches, and by watching the abuse within them. For people willing to follow their theology and rules of behavior to the letter, I suppose it can be a support system. In other words, so long as you adhere to their rules you will be an insider with insider benefits. But step outside their theology or rules (including where you go, what you wear, and particular behaviours) and you will be shunned. At first they say you're backslidden or fallen from grace and "encourage" you to return to their path. they say they're praying for you. But if you persist operating outside of their rules you can be shunned or even cast out of the church. Some of these rules involved radical political involvement and activism, men having to wear short hair, women having to wear dresses and not pants, women couldn't wear jewelry or makeup, TV sets weren't allowed...
The whole scene was one of legalism and had nothing to do with Gods love or forgiveness. Although there was a form of spirituality, and even spiritual manifestations, these were interpreted according to their theology and personal experience was often questioned as to whether it was of God or not.
They also centered a lot of things on money. If you were poor or unemployed you were accused of either being in sin or not having enough faith. Usually the leaders of these churches were rich and their congregations were relatively poor. the leadership required people to give 10% of their income or more to the church, even if it meant bills would go unpaid. They said God would provide where we lacked. Funny that didn't seem to provide numerous people with necessary funds and they had to go on welfare or file bankrupsy!
John 4 tells us to worship God in Spirit and in truth. I think legalism & emphasizing the "prosperity doctrine" quenches the spirit and brings people into spiritual and physical bondage. Such things are a major turn off. For those who have left such churches, we are considered part of the "great falling away" or apostacy. Well, I maintain a relationship with God - one that I had nearly lost by being involved in such churches. The churches in question ranged from Pentecostal, to Baptist, and non-denominational.
The whole scene was one of legalism and had nothing to do with Gods love or forgiveness. Although there was a form of spirituality, and even spiritual manifestations, these were interpreted according to their theology and personal experience was often questioned as to whether it was of God or not.
They also centered a lot of things on money. If you were poor or unemployed you were accused of either being in sin or not having enough faith. Usually the leaders of these churches were rich and their congregations were relatively poor. the leadership required people to give 10% of their income or more to the church, even if it meant bills would go unpaid. They said God would provide where we lacked. Funny that didn't seem to provide numerous people with necessary funds and they had to go on welfare or file bankrupsy!
John 4 tells us to worship God in Spirit and in truth. I think legalism & emphasizing the "prosperity doctrine" quenches the spirit and brings people into spiritual and physical bondage. Such things are a major turn off. For those who have left such churches, we are considered part of the "great falling away" or apostacy. Well, I maintain a relationship with God - one that I had nearly lost by being involved in such churches. The churches in question ranged from Pentecostal, to Baptist, and non-denominational.
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