- Aug 9, 2017
- 33
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- Country
- United States
- Faith
- Christian
- Marital Status
- Private
I am sad and frustrated. My oldest daughter (46) made plans to come and see me today, along with her husband, and my granddaughter and grandson. Then..... this morning, she said she overslept and her children were also asleep, so, could they wait and come to visit next Saturday. This type of thing has happened several times and I have come to expect it now. I have not seen these grandchildren (18 & 15) in 2 years. Same with my son in law. I have seen my daughter once this year, when she brought her car to this city to have it serviced. (She lives an hour away) I have come to accept not seeing them much as the children are in all kinds of activities and my daughter and son in law work full time jobs, so all that is the excuse. I have even tried to invite myself over to see them at their house but something always comes up, even if plans have been made. So I have given up on doing that as well. I have expressed my feelings about all of this gently and with kindness, but nothing changes.
I always have made sure that I send birthday cards and money to each one of them, but rarely get a thank you. Sometimes my daughter has done the thanking. This year I mailed a Christmas card and a check to each one of them, as their gifts, as I did not expect to see them, as usual. As time has gone on, my daughter has stopped getting me birthday gifts and Mothers Day gifts although she used to. Sometimes she would save them up and give to me at one time. But it has all stopped now. Last year before Christmas, she said she wanted to come to see me but she never did. I received an email from her (out of the blue) for an Amazon gift card for my Christmas gift. I just feel like I don't matter to her.
I pray for my daughter and her family daily.
I wonder if she will show up this Saturday.....
I always have made sure that I send birthday cards and money to each one of them, but rarely get a thank you. Sometimes my daughter has done the thanking. This year I mailed a Christmas card and a check to each one of them, as their gifts, as I did not expect to see them, as usual. As time has gone on, my daughter has stopped getting me birthday gifts and Mothers Day gifts although she used to. Sometimes she would save them up and give to me at one time. But it has all stopped now. Last year before Christmas, she said she wanted to come to see me but she never did. I received an email from her (out of the blue) for an Amazon gift card for my Christmas gift. I just feel like I don't matter to her.
I pray for my daughter and her family daily.
I wonder if she will show up this Saturday.....