Hallo there, any moms from South Africa? I need advice for our 18 year old child. Lovely, quiet and gentle girl but people trample on her...

[Cisk777]

I need advice for our 18 year old child. Lovely, quiet and gentle girl but people trample on her...
We live in a small town, and there is a boy that won't leave her alone. He keeps stalking her and telling her lies. Because the town is so small, she tries to avoid him, but cannot... As the mother, I can see and hear that he has narcistic traits, even at the young age of 18

 

[Maria Billingsley]

I need advice for our 18 year old child. Lovely, quiet and gentle girl but people trample on her...
We live in a small town, and there is a boy that won't leave her alone. He keeps stalking her and telling her lies. Because the town is so small, she tries to avoid him, but cannot... As the mother, I can see and hear that he has narcistic traits, even at the young age of 18

Welcome. Sorry to hear this. Time for her father to have a serious conversation with this boy.
Blessings.

 

[Cisk777]

Welcome. Sorry to hear this. Time for her father to have a serious conversation with this boy.
Blessings.

Welcome. Sorry to hear this. Time for her father to have a serious conversation with this boy.
Blessings

 

[Cisk777]

Thanks Maria, I will talk to dad. Hopes he will, he is not much of a talker. I am the doer...

 

[eleos1954]

I need advice for our 18 year old child. Lovely, quiet and gentle girl but people trample on her...
We live in a small town, and there is a boy that won't leave her alone. He keeps stalking her and telling her lies. Because the town is so small, she tries to avoid him, but cannot... As the mother, I can see and hear that he has narcistic traits, even at the young age of 18

Hello and welcome to CF.

Do you know the boy's parents? Maybe talking with them about the matter ... not in a confrontational way. If not under direct supervision of parents .... then talk to him yourself with both him and your child present .... maybe talk about lies in general and how they can be hurtful?

 

[Joined2krist]

Welcome to CF. If he is a Christian, report him to his Pastor or Priest. You can also let the Police know that your daughter is being stalked. God bless

 

[Michie]

Welcome!

 

[Christoph Maria]

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