Hello everyone,
Yesterday I finished one of my exams. After I finished, my teacher for the class asked if I could talk to him and I agreed to. He then started to accuse me of cheating on one of the homeworks, which I did
He talked to me for about 2 hours, and not thinking straight from lack of sleep and severe stress, I went lying my mouth off. I'm sure he figured out I was lying, as I couldn't explain my answers thoroughly. I then thought I knew what was coming: being expelled. I had broken the schools lying/cheating principles, and I had no real excuse.
But then the unexpected happened. After 2 hours of me and my big fat lying mouth, he let me off with only a warning and a cold hard stare. Not even a reduction in my grade, just a warning. I even asked that he should just reduce my grade on the assignment, and yet he didn't even do that! Why only a warning I am completely clueless. I can't believe his generosity after the way I acted! And yet, the guilt is really starting to get to me.
I want to tell him the truth, but he's given me this gift of only a warning. Would it be wrong for me not to just accept this gift? I've asked for forgiveness from God and what He thinks I should do, but I feel as though I've turned my back too much on Him to ever give me an answer
I can't even look into the teacher's eyes, and I'm sure I'll probably have to talk to him again. I feel like he'll never forgive me after the stupid way I acted. The way I acted yesterday: I've never acted this stupid in my life! What I did was just not me, and yet I'm sure everytime I walk down the hallway that that'll be the only way he thinks of me.
I'm at a point I just don't know what to do. I've learned my lesson and I know I'll never do such a stupid thing as I did. Is that really enough though?
I guess my only real concerns is being expelled if I went out and admitted it (even if I'm almost 100% sure he knows I lied), even if he gave me just a warning. I've spent almost 4 years staying truthful until now, and to lose what I'm so close to getting (a diploma) is just so hard for me to grasp. It almost seems selfish in fact, as without this degree I won't be able to support my (hopefully) future fiance. I feel sure enough that God has called me to be alongside her for the rest of my life. To lose that support to provide for her that God has called me for makes me feel as if I'd lose the only true purpose with life that I know.
If you have any advice, let me know.
Yesterday I finished one of my exams. After I finished, my teacher for the class asked if I could talk to him and I agreed to. He then started to accuse me of cheating on one of the homeworks, which I did
He talked to me for about 2 hours, and not thinking straight from lack of sleep and severe stress, I went lying my mouth off. I'm sure he figured out I was lying, as I couldn't explain my answers thoroughly. I then thought I knew what was coming: being expelled. I had broken the schools lying/cheating principles, and I had no real excuse.
But then the unexpected happened. After 2 hours of me and my big fat lying mouth, he let me off with only a warning and a cold hard stare. Not even a reduction in my grade, just a warning. I even asked that he should just reduce my grade on the assignment, and yet he didn't even do that! Why only a warning I am completely clueless. I can't believe his generosity after the way I acted! And yet, the guilt is really starting to get to me.
I want to tell him the truth, but he's given me this gift of only a warning. Would it be wrong for me not to just accept this gift? I've asked for forgiveness from God and what He thinks I should do, but I feel as though I've turned my back too much on Him to ever give me an answer
I can't even look into the teacher's eyes, and I'm sure I'll probably have to talk to him again. I feel like he'll never forgive me after the stupid way I acted. The way I acted yesterday: I've never acted this stupid in my life! What I did was just not me, and yet I'm sure everytime I walk down the hallway that that'll be the only way he thinks of me.
I'm at a point I just don't know what to do. I've learned my lesson and I know I'll never do such a stupid thing as I did. Is that really enough though?
I guess my only real concerns is being expelled if I went out and admitted it (even if I'm almost 100% sure he knows I lied), even if he gave me just a warning. I've spent almost 4 years staying truthful until now, and to lose what I'm so close to getting (a diploma) is just so hard for me to grasp. It almost seems selfish in fact, as without this degree I won't be able to support my (hopefully) future fiance. I feel sure enough that God has called me to be alongside her for the rest of my life. To lose that support to provide for her that God has called me for makes me feel as if I'd lose the only true purpose with life that I know.
If you have any advice, let me know.
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