The only way I know how to describe it is to tell you the first time I "recognized" it.
I was up late on night painting a house and (me and my husband) and I got tired and decided to lay down. Usually my mind is constantly running. It seems I can never have a moment of peace! For reasons beyond my comprehension this night I was a blank. I had lost my dad about 3 years prior and had some major life changes. Needless to say I "strayed" and at this point was begging God to come back to me, and had been for some time to no avail it seemed. I wanted so badly to "get back" to where I had fallen from because of misery, and a few bad choices. Anyway, I was lying there my mind completely blank! (for once) when I heard, not in a voice with my "ears" but inside me. It seemed to be me thinking, but I knew it was not because why would I tell my self this, "my name, I have a special purpose for your life, and you are not living it, I will prune you from my vine if you do not make some changes," then I heard "Now is the time for the harvest," Now, I could not believe it at first, because I did not believe God spoke like that anymore, but I prayed about it and read scripture to make sure it was not something out of line with His Word, and it was not, it was a warning, that I heeded! Anyway, read examples of how God spoke in the O.T.
Read ISamuel 3:2ff as an example also read I Kings 19:11-13 that is a good explanation of how we would imagine God speaking to us, and how He really does! I hope I helped you- May God speak to you and Bless you (all)
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