Good, then don’t use the Father, say the Parent for example. Otherwise if you say the Father, you rob God of Its feminine attributes and characteristics of the Mother, which is wrong.
Here's what Catholic theologian Hans Urs von Balthasar writes in his work Credo: Meditations on the Apostles' Creed:
On the first part of the Creed: "I believe in God the Father, Almighty maker of heaven and earth",
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That he is Father we know in utmost fullness from Jesus Christ, who constantly makes loving, thankful, and reverent reference to him as his Origin. It is because he bears fruit out of himself and requires no fructifying that he is called Father, and not in the sexual sense, for he will be the Creator of man and woman, and thus contains the primal qualities of woman in himself in the same simultaneously transcending way as those of man. (The Greek gennad can imply both siring and bearing, as can the word for to come into being: ginomai.) Jesus’ words indicate that this fruitful self-surrender by the primal Origin has neither beginning nor end: It is a perpetual occurrence in which essence and activity coincide. Herein lies the most unfathomable aspect of the Mystery of God: that what is absolutely primal is no statically self-contained and comprehensible reality, but one that exists solely in dispensing itself: a flowing wellspring with no holding-trough beneath it, an act of procreation with no seminal vesicle, with no organism at all to perform the act. In the pure act of self-pouring-forth, God the Father is his self, or, if one wishes, a “person” (in a transcending way)." Hans Urs von Balthasar, Credo, Ignatius Press. Kindle Edition
He is called Father because that's what Jesus calls Him. Jesus makes reference to
His Father. It is in Christ--the Son made flesh--that we by our union with Jesus that His Father becomes our Father. It is in this that Jesus teaches us how to pray, "
Our Father, who art in heaven..."
He is not called Father because He is male, He is called Father because He is the One who begets the Son. He is Father of His Son, just as Jesus is called Son because He is Son of the Father.
Jesus speaks of His Father, and Christians have always called God the Father "Father". It is never a statement of God's sexuality (God has no sexuality, He's God).
That He is called Father does not mean He is lacking in what we would call the "maternal"; God is father and mother in the sense that there is in Him those transcendent qualities which are reflected in the goodness of human relationships--such as fatherhood and motherhood. But He is not called "God the Mother" because that's not what Jesus called Him, and that's not what the New Testament calls Him.
He isn't called "Father" merely because of the paternal qualities associated with Him (again, Scripture also ascribes the maternal to God), but because He is the
Father of Jesus Christ. From all eternity, the Son has His eternal Origin in and from the Father, as "
God of God" as we say in the Nicene Creed.
-CryptoLutheran