I don’t think it’s helpful to jump from Is.24 to imply a divine itch to damn. Firstly cursings were often educational, consequences ratcheted up in line with disobedience, with surrender at any point accepted. The divine desire was to ratchet up blessing for obedience. I hold that Yahweh hates sinfulness—relational failure—but not sinners, yet ultimately but not yearningly will allow all who side with sin to have it their own way and to fade into unrelationship, hell. Covenant is for people-centred relationship; violating it (Is.24:5) is towards termination of relationship, an adultery. Whatever the biblical covenant, violation is punished with the hope of restoration but allowance of eventual hopelessness. God can be defeated, but none will gain from his defeat. He desires none to ultimately fall and has done and does what can could and can be done to redeem. I hold 2 Pt.3:9 to be a universal truism that will demonstrate his limits: ultimately the ‘goats’, so to speak, will go their own way. There is no divine ‘want/desire’ for folk to ultimately perish, though he can ‘want/desire’ immediate perishing for educative/redemptive purpose: Paul desired the Roman offender to perish for the offender’s longterm good (1 Cor.5) as well as the Corinthian church’s.
God’s ‘love’ can mean ‘choice’—Jacob was chosen; Judas was ‘loved’. Likewise 'hate' can mean bypassing. Love/hate can have other meanings in other contexts. Eg Jhn.3:16 was about immediate salvation limited to those hearing the gospel who could thereby know immediate heaven or hell. Within that covenant arguably some enable him to 'love' them more. (As an aside I reject fhansen’s idea that ‘God’ died for us: pace Charles Wesley the Immortal never died; it was Jesus the mortal.) That beyond the timeline God sees all responses need not imply that the atonement was limited in design to the receivers, howbeit was limited in mortal life to the hearing/welcome of Christ (Rm.10:13-4) and beyond mortal life has been limited to all with a welcome for God.