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But falsely accusing the man of saying things he did not say.....that's OK? The lack of addressing the real issue, being falsely accused of racist overtones, seems to imply that.....
Oh, dear. I neglected to point out she was equally hot-headed. Please forgive the oversight.

That said, I was noting that he instigated the kerfuffle. Two hotheads at checkout. America at its finest.
 
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I have no idea if this was racial or not. But if you feel the need to make a scene about a pregnant woman bringing 20 items into the express lane when there are 2 other open lanes, there is something seriously wrong with you.
 
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I do think having a tantrum over somebody having broken the sacred rule of the Express checkout is stupid. Take a deep breath, for crying out loud.

I tend to agree....but I've also seen the local grocery store I frequent kick someone out of line for having too many items. I've gone through with 3 or 4 too many items...but at some point you're basically defeating the entire purpose of an express lane.
 
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I was at the grocery store the other day and standing with my 3 items in the 15 items or less lane and there was someone ahead of me who had 28 items (yes I counted). I was far more angry than I should have been. The worst I could do, however was a stern glare and a few heavy sighs. I did fight the urge to suggest that the person with the 28 items might want to revisit the "counting" section of kindergarten.

But I didn't.

Still, I can see how this would cause people to snap and suggest others go to another lane.
 
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I do think having a tantrum over somebody having broken the sacred rule of the Express checkout is stupid. Take a deep breath, for crying out loud.

Agreed...but still, I mean there ARE rules in our society. We are a society of laws. And taking more than the appropriate number of items into the expresslane IS a bridge too far.
 
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Did the express lane say “15 items or fewer” or “15 items or less”

“Or less” some found not only grammatically incorrect but threatening.
 
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I've never said anything to anyone, but I've seen other people do it. If it's just a couple of items....it does seem rather petty. I mentioned in another post that I saw the cashier kick a person out of their lane...but that person had a lot of items.

I don't think this guy should have gone back into the store just to confront the woman....but it's also weird that she sat down and made a video crying about it to post online.
 
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How long have been living in Panama City, FL?
 
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Agreed...but still, I mean there ARE rules in our society. We are a society of laws. And taking more than the appropriate number of items into the expresslane IS a bridge too far.
A poster speculates some people create disharmony to validate their existence.
 
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They sound perfect for each other.
 
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I did fight the urge to suggest that the person with the 28 items might want to revisit the "counting" section of kindergarten.

I've read about this response (probably mythical):

A: Did you go to Harvard or MIT?
B: Huh?
A: Well, either you went to MIT, and you can't read, or you went to Harvard, and you can't count.
 
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I've read about this response (probably mythical):

A: Did you go to Harvard or MIT?
B: Huh?
A: Well, either you went to MIT, and you can't read, or you went to Harvard, and you can't count.
I do believe that joke came from an opening act at a national MENSA rally.
 
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You are correct. The best way to stop someone from being a racist is to have them get to know people from the group they hate. It's really easy to hate a group in the abstract, a lot harder to hate people when you get to know them. Difficult to pull off though.
 
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I have but the times I can remember is just as they are getting in line and I asked if they noticed the sign. I have actually been thanked for doing so. Almost surely because they really had not seen the sign and don't want to chose between getting out of line later or being a jerk.
 
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