I agree that both are important, but I asked which one was the reason why you were there.
"You have to understand why you are on the planet or life will define you slowly and subtly and you will be pottered by circumstances instead true. And all of the sudden you are a person in need instead of a person filled with the Spirit, all of the sudden this thing is about you and God taking care of you instead of God transforming you and ma king your like him in the heat of the fire. To where when you're facing injustice all you know mercy, truth, forgiveness, and loving-kindness. When you are faced with unfairness, you don't have a bunch of rights, you have Jesus and you have the Holy Ghost in you that over takes people and situations and covers things with grace.
"Let's understand why He lives in us, let's understand why His Son died on the cross. I'm concerned that some of us think that it is all about us being blessed. It's all about us being transformed because if it is all about being blessed, then your life doesn't seem blessed, you're discourage, and you have a ton of questions. And then all of your faith is being used to get that breakthrough and to get that blessing that you think it's all about. No, it's all about you have peace with God and you shining like light and you walking in love and showing mercy and making peace in the face of trials and troubles and fires.
"Because that's the reason that he is in us - to love the world around us. Were not here to be loved by others, we have been loved by God, we're here to become love to others. Because if God made man in His image and God is love, then God made man to love, not need love. The only reason you grew up needing love is because man got caught off from it when he ate the tree. So we grew up in need of love, in need of esteem, in need of reputation, in need of appreciation, trying to find our value through one another. That's why were hurt so bad, offended, rejected. You're not rejected any more! You've been accepted into the beloved, you've been grafted back in, you're in the vine, you're a fruitful branch, come on. You're not in need, you've become. I don't need you to love me, if you do that's awesome, I am so fulfilled in love it is ridiculous, I don't need you to acknowledge me, honor me, show me attention. I'm fulfilled in Christ, to know the love of Christ is to be filled with all of the fulness of God. I want you to like me, I want us to get along, I want to be family in the body of Christ, but I will not put a weight on your shoulders so that if you don't fulfill that I'm affected and diminished. That would disappoint me and cause you to fail. I'm called to love you, not expect of you because if I put that on your shoulders and I need him to be something to be ok, then he is lord.
Don't you say "Well I would be more if it wasn't for so and so, I just didn't feel loved in that church." Well, you didn't go there to be loved, you went there to love, if you understand why you are saved. "Well, yeah, but people do me wrong all the time and just hurt me wrong and I don't know why..." and all of the sudden you let them be the reason for who you are and you are no stronger than the weakness around you, and you've been identified by life instead of the Christ that's in you."