My girlfriend (we're both 32, thinking seriously of marriage) is a victim of sexual abuse from a long time ago.
There are many ramifications and effects that such a victim suffers, of course, but I don't want to turn this into a thread discussing 100 different issues all at once. I did want to ask, though, how Christians should approach this in a context of sex within marriage.
I had asked her if she thought it might affect her future sex life as a married woman, if we were to be wed: She sounds like someone who is averse to sex (for totally understandable reasons.) What are ways to helping such a victim, and also perhaps to help overcome any fears, aversions or negative thoughts about sex when that sex is in a healthy, God-intended context (upcoming marriage)?
How can a boyfriend or husband be most beneficial/helpful to such a woman? (aside from being a supportive, sympathetic listening ear)
There are many ramifications and effects that such a victim suffers, of course, but I don't want to turn this into a thread discussing 100 different issues all at once. I did want to ask, though, how Christians should approach this in a context of sex within marriage.
I had asked her if she thought it might affect her future sex life as a married woman, if we were to be wed: She sounds like someone who is averse to sex (for totally understandable reasons.) What are ways to helping such a victim, and also perhaps to help overcome any fears, aversions or negative thoughts about sex when that sex is in a healthy, God-intended context (upcoming marriage)?
How can a boyfriend or husband be most beneficial/helpful to such a woman? (aside from being a supportive, sympathetic listening ear)