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getting settled in a new church

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I left a very small group of 4 people and now I'm in a bigger church. If you have changed churches, how long did it take for you to feel "settled"? I joined a ladies group and another class In Jan since I first started going in Nov.
What interested you in this new church?
 
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more of a body of believers, to make new friends, be involved in activities stuff like that it's close to what I believe
The deeper you immerse yourself, the more settled you will likely become. Invite them into your home starting with the Pastors. Hospitality is a great way of showing brotherly love. Also, give yourself to diligent prayer for the church and its ministry.
 
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my husband has no real desire for church tho he's saved. same with my daughter. kind of a challenging situation at the moment
Do you know why your husband doesn't find church attendance important?
 
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I left a very small group of 4 people and now I'm in a bigger church. If you have changed churches, how long did it take for you to feel "settled"? I joined a ladies group and another class In Jan since I first started going in Nov.

Why did you leave the 4? Your leaving took a major chunk out of that small group.

Anyway, it takes me about a month to get settled in a new church. My advice is to get involved as much as is reasonably possible for you.
 
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Maybe you were drawn to the small family-like group because it satisfied things you didn't get at home?
As far as settling in to a new place, I would try to remove all time restraints, and remove all expectations, so you don't set yourself up for disappointments. Let God do His work in you, and that will happen by spending time with Him and reading your Bible, regardless of where you are. Let that be your focus. God will show you in due time what He has in store.
 
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Maybe you were drawn to the small family-like group because it satisfied things you didn't get at home?
As far as settling in to a new place, I would try to remove all time restraints, and remove all expectations, so you don't set yourself up for disappointments. Let God do His work in you, and that will happen by spending time with Him and reading your Bible, regardless of where you are. Let that be your focus. God will show you in due time what He has in store.
Yes and No. It was a lot about their family. Thanks for the advice!
 
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