Getting a Gun

[Introverted1293]

Why is it okay for people to protect their loved ones, but some people think it is not okay to protect yourself?

I do not have any children or a wife. So, I don't know what it is like to have that protective feeling, like parents do. But when I talk about buying a gun to protect myself, some people tell me that I am wrong. Don't I have the right to love myself the way you love your family?

Update: This was not news. I meant to put this in Christian Advice. Oops

So, I asked the staff to move it. Sorry about that.

 

[dogs4thewin]

Why is it okay for people to protect their loved ones, but some people think it is not okay to protect yourself?

I do not have any children or a wife. So, I don't know what it is like to have that protective feeling, like parents do. But when I talk about buying a gun to protect myself, some people tell me that I am wrong. Don't I have the right to love myself the way you love your family?

I have never heard that being wide spread. It may be that people feel look if you choose not to defend yourself that is between you and God, but you should defend others who cannot defend themselves. I personally for the record have NO problem with self defense and if my eyesight and motor skills (I have CP) would allow it I would carry concealed.

 

[Introverted1293]

I have never heard that being wide spread. It may be that people feel look if you choose not to defend yourself that is between you and God, but you should defend others who cannot defend themselves. I personally for the record have NO problem with self defense and if my eyesight and motor skills (I have CP) would allow it I would carry concealed.

Thank you for your response. I did mean to put this in Christian Advice. It wasn't news. LOL

But thank you for that. I really do appreciate it.

 

[bekkilyn]

Never heard of single people "singled" out like this before concerning having guns. Around here it's almost an expectation that everyone would have one.

My biggest concern would be that if you haven't had sufficient and regular training, then in a stress situation you are at risk of being more of a danger to yourself than to others, or accidentally shoot someone that wasn't a threat, so if you do get a pistol or rifle for self-defense, then proper training needs to go along with it.

 

[bèlla]

You’ve answered your question.

But when I talk about buying a gun to protect myself, some people tell me that I am wrong. Don't I have the right to love myself the way you love your family?

You’ve admitted the absence of a wife and family and elect to discuss a controversial subject with others. Why are you surprised they feel differently? How is your admission relevant to them?

If you want to discuss gun ownership do it in the company of gun owners. If you have questions direct them to the right source.

When I desired information I posed a question on the Firearms forum. But that didn’t prevent someone from advising me otherwise whom I’ve never spoken to outside of this venue.

That’s the consequence of a public post. Anyone can respond. I didn’t take it personal. It’s just an opinion. But the one that counts is my companion and loved ones. They’re directly impacted by that choice.

If you’re looking for agreement or validation you’ll come up short. There’s always dissent at some point.

~Bella

 

[maintenance man]

But when I talk about buying a gun to protect myself, some people tell me that I am wrong. Don't I have the right to love myself the way you love your family?

The problem is those people who are telling you you're wrong. You are the only person who knows if owning a gun is right or wrong for you.

Proper training is essential.

 

[Introverted1293]

Never heard of single people "singled" out like this before concerning having guns. Around here it's almost an expectation that everyone would have one.

My biggest concern would be that if you haven't had sufficient and regular training, then in a stress situation you are at risk of being more of a danger to yourself than to others, or accidentally shoot someone that wasn't a threat, so if you do get a pistol or rifle for self-defense, then proper training needs to go along with it.

Yeah, I don't think they are singling out anyone. But I understand why it sounds like I am saying that they are singling out people. I apologize. I am terrible with words. So, this is on me.

But I would talk to my friends who would be willing to do anything for their children. They would defend their children at all cost. But then when I talk to them about me getting a gun to defend myself, they would say that they don't think I should have a gun. They think that I could hurt someone that is innocent. So, it's like they are saying that they would defend their kids at all cost, but I can't defend myself at all cost.

 

[Introverted1293]

You’ve answered your question.



You’ve admitted the absence of a wife and family and elect to discuss a controversial subject with others. Why are you surprised they feel differently? How is your admission relevant to them?

If you want to discuss gun ownership do it in the company of gun owners. If you have questions direct them to the right source.

When I desired information I posed a question on the Firearms forum. But that didn’t prevent someone from advising me otherwise whom I’ve never spoken to outside of this venue.

That’s the consequence of a public post. Anyone can respond. I didn’t take it personal. It’s just an opinion. But the one that counts is my companion and loved ones. They’re directly impacted by that choice.

If you’re looking for agreement or validation you’ll come up short. There’s always dissent at some point.

~Bella

That is true. And I know that I need to accept that. Sometimes it is hard. But I get what you are saying @LaBèlla

 

[Introverted1293]

The problem is those people who are telling you you're wrong. You are the only person who knows if owning a gun is right or wrong for you.

Proper training is essential.

Thank you

 

[Broken Fence]

Everyone has a right to defend themselves, except me I am mentally ill is not lawful for me to have one.

 

[Daniel Marsh]

Why is it okay for people to protect their loved ones, but some people think it is not okay to protect yourself?

I do not have any children or a wife. So, I don't know what it is like to have that protective feeling, like parents do. But when I talk about buying a gun to protect myself, some people tell me that I am wrong. Don't I have the right to love myself the way you love your family?

Update: This was not news. I meant to put this in Christian Advice. Oops

So, I asked the staff to move it. Sorry about that.

If is fine to protect oneself and your neighbors.

I use tranq guns to knock out problem children.

 

[Darkhorse]

Everyone has a right to defend themselves, except me I am mentally ill is not lawful for me to have one.

There are many other ways to defend yourself that are legal for you.

Look into pepper spray, knives, axes, baseball bats, maybe swords.

Above all, keep your mental state intact, as much as possible.

 

[bèlla]

That is true. And I know that I need to accept that. Sometimes it is hard. But I get what you are saying @LaBèlla

You must tailor the conversation to the audience.

Try discussing less loaded subjects to gauge their reaction and receptivity. Share a small goal. You want to know who’s in your corner before you entrust them with bigger things. Some people enjoy poking holes in our dreams. I mentioned goals for that reason.

~Bella

 

[St. Helens]

ADMIN HAT ON

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[Darkhorse]

Why is it okay for people to protect their loved ones, but some people think it is not okay to protect yourself?

I do not have any children or a wife. So, I don't know what it is like to have that protective feeling, like parents do. But when I talk about buying a gun to protect myself, some people tell me that I am wrong. Don't I have the right to love myself the way you love your family?

Update: This was not news. I meant to put this in Christian Advice. Oops

So, I asked the staff to move it. Sorry about that.

Many people believe that a Christian is obligated to not use potentially-lethal means for self-defense. Certain denominations emphasize the value of being a martyr rather than possibly kill an attacker.

Jesus talked about turning the other cheek, and not resisting evil, but when the rubber meets the road, you have to have a plan in place: be passive or be defensive. It's your choice.

I've been there. My hesitancy to defend my mom nearly cost her life.
Theologians can argue Scripture in their ivory towers all day; I choose to carry a gun.
And yes, I know how to use it. (classes and regular practice).

So make up your mind before you face that situation. Your decision may change as you get older and more experienced. My two sons don't carry guns, but the world hasn't kicked them around very much - at least not yet.

 

[Broken Fence]

There are many other ways to defend yourself that are legal for you.

Look into pepper spray, knives, axes, baseball bats, maybe swords.

Above all, keep your mental state intact, as much as possible.

Yea my mom keeps me level headed and she taught me how to shoot.

 

[Broken Fence]

when the rubber meets the road, you have to have a plan in place: be passive or be defensive.

So make up your mind before you face that situation.

That is the most useful thing I have heard all day.

Me and my mom's checklist.

Have a go bag, with first aid kit.

Copying bible, in case they confiscate bibles.

Have a garden and access to fresh water.

Have good relationships with neighbors and friends in area.

Have a exit in case you need to leave area.

Stay informed on your local militia, city, and state rules and mandates.

 

[Job3315]

Why is it okay for people to protect their loved ones, but some people think it is not okay to protect yourself?

I do not have any children or a wife. So, I don't know what it is like to have that protective feeling, like parents do. But when I talk about buying a gun to protect myself, some people tell me that I am wrong. Don't I have the right to love myself the way you love your family?

Update: This was not news. I meant to put this in Christian Advice. Oops

So, I asked the staff to move it. Sorry about that.

Ask God. I haven't heard Him say I need a gun, but ,maybe He is telling you do? He knows your future. He is a previous God and He will prepare you for what you need.

 

[coffee4u]

Why is it okay for people to protect their loved ones, but some people think it is not okay to protect yourself?

I do not have any children or a wife. So, I don't know what it is like to have that protective feeling, like parents do. But when I talk about buying a gun to protect myself, some people tell me that I am wrong. Don't I have the right to love myself the way you love your family?

Update: This was not news. I meant to put this in Christian Advice. Oops

So, I asked the staff to move it. Sorry about that.

When I read posts like this I am glad that I live in a country with a different mentality and strict gun controls.

I was hopping around YouTube yesterday and came across an American saying after living abroad 2 1/2 years she had reverse culture shock on returning to the US as she said in the US it is a life with a constant thread of underlaying fear of being mugged, broken into and in some way becoming a victim to crime. Her Sister-in-law said she was 'brave' to take a bus. That the whole time she was aborad she had no weapon and had felt fine, used buses and felt safe.

So I assume this is your culture of fear coming through. This is a very American way of thinking. Looking on countries for highest crime rates, the US does not even make the top 3. That goes to Venezuela, Papua New Guinea and South Africa. The US was way down the list at 50th place. So maybe the US mindset of fear is somewhat misplaced.
I have never owned a gun.
Never thought of owning a gun
Would not want to own a gun
We came in at 72nd place for crime.
Never really thought about protection except when my husband is away I do take care to make sure doors are locked and that my mobile phone is on the bedside table. That is my idea of protecting myself.

 

[Dave G.]

Ya, I'd head over to the firearms site.