That's what I figured too. It's the best explanation I can come up with as well and I can definitely see that! I used to not be like that, but it seemed like when I asked a question simply, it didn't help either. Like I'd ask a question and I'd get an answer that didn't answer my question? So I added more detail. And it didn't help. So I'd add more detail. And it didn't help. So I'd add more detail. And it didn't help... So now I'm at the point of HERE IS ALL THE INFORMATION!!! Still doesn't seem to help, but very clearly it's making it worse!The problem may have been that you went into a lot of detail about the guy. I think you probably could have shortened it quite a bit and still got your point across. But writing so much about the situation made it seem like it you were asking about it and people missed or forgot that you said you were using it as an example.
My brother gets me though so I know it's possible for people to understand me! We talked about this once and his response was 'It's not you. People are just pathetic and weak', which may or may not be true, but it doesn't help me in communicating more clearly because my brothers advice is 'People are worthless, don't worry about them. If I had a button that would end humanity, I'd try to press it as many times as I could before I died.'