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Fuming. Mom let my baby sit in a soiled diaper bc she was mad at me.

Discussion in 'General Struggles' started by Macchiato, Jul 23, 2021.

  1. Macchiato

    Macchiato Well-Known Member

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    I have her in the tub now and Im FUMING mad! So i leave out to work and before I go my mom says nothing to me except are the kids sleep and i said yes and left.

    I get off work and i get a text in all caps from my mom saying she has to be at work by 6. How is she getting there. Um.. She didnt tell me anything before she left. She wasnt ready before i left to drop me off either.

    So i get home and pick up my daughter. Shes soaked th rough her clothes with pee and poop. I asked my brother why isnt she changed and she said our mom told him not to.

    So bc shes angry she let my baby stay in a soiled diaper yet changes her patients. She rants and raves abt how she could get fired. But when i was late bc my bro accidently had my keys in his pocket and they went joy riding ..she said the most your boss can do is fire you.

    Im already working. Im doing my VERY BEST to make money so i can leave. I may have to go to a janky apt. Bc this behaviour is so messed up. So evil to do this to a baby. She keeps telling me how lucky i am bc she had such a hard life but then does this.

    Im close 2 cursing her.
     
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  2. Tigger45

    Tigger45 Well-Known Member Supporter

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    I pray for God’s blessings and wisdom upon the whole household :pray:
     
  3. Michie

    Michie Human rights begin in the womb. Supporter

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    Praying for the situation. Hugs and prayers.
     
  4. Michie

    Michie Human rights begin in the womb. Supporter

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    By the way, you might want to edit your word about the condition of the diaper. I understand you are frustrated. But you might save yourself some trouble.
     
  5. Macchiato

    Macchiato Well-Known Member

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    Edited it.
     
  6. Michie

    Michie Human rights begin in the womb. Supporter

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    :thumbsup: You do not need anymore frustration at this point! :) Praying that the situation improves and you can get out of there soon.
     
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  7. Macchiato

    Macchiato Well-Known Member

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    Yeah i just have to leeave. This i know. Im already working. I just need a little luck.
     
  8. sandman

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    Kids are not pawns…. what she did was childish ….

    Making a child suffer to teach you a lesson …but there is no lesson to be taught or learned when it involves an unwitting third party, especially the suffering of and innocent child. That is why she had to make it about her ➡ “she had such a hard”.

    You don’t need luck ….you just need to know, God knows your heart and situation and He promises to meet your need …and you have a need to ….get out.
     
  9. Macchiato

    Macchiato Well-Known Member

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    I absolutely agree. My mom is toxic. Completely toxic. Im realizing this now. I just have to leave.
     
  10. mama2one

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    how about put ad in paper "looking for room to rent."
    there are seniors who need additional money & rent rooms
     
  11. Macchiato

    Macchiato Well-Known Member

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    I keep thinking of a hotel bc i dont trust sttangers at all. Can barely trust my family. Ive searched a lot of cheap places.

    I have to leave my mom came home and called me.lazy and told me to get up with him and that she didnt really care about my feelings ect
     
  12. Hank77

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    It sounds like your mom works nights taking care of other people, patients, and caring for your baby during the day. Is that correct?

    Who will care for your baby when you move out?
     
  13. Macchiato

    Macchiato Well-Known Member

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    No i care for my own baby. I never dump my kids off on her. When i work i get a baby sitter. So no you aren't correct. Thats very wrong.
     
  14. Hank77

    Hank77 Well-Known Member Supporter

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    OK, that's why I asked rather than assuming. We have cared for my youngest daughter's boys while she and her husband work and we never considered that they were being 'dumped' off on us.

    Now I'm even more confused but I can see that you are offended by me asking questions so I'll just bow out.
     
  15. Macchiato

    Macchiato Well-Known Member

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    Questions are fine. I just dont wsnt anyone to assume Im taking advantage of my folks when Im not. If i try to get a bit of help from my brother.. Like one time I was bathing my son and asked him to scramble eggs for him my mother told me i was using him and made him stop what he was doing. When my son was sick with what the Drs assumed may habe been cancer-- i ne ed ed help to get down to the hospital bc ive never been there and my dad called me a user and i had to take a lyft 2 to 3 xs a week for 3 months just to make sure he was ok and my dad watched me struggle with a carseat in one hand my son in thr other and a bookbag on my back while he sat on the couch.
    It just triggers me when people think im not doing enough or i have to be doing something wrong for my parents to act this way.

    Yesterday and today i was up all night with my son. My mom called me lazy and wouldnt really let me sleep so im very exhausted and I have work tommorow.

    I bought my mom 300 bucks worth of gifts for mothers day and her birthday. Whenever she asked for money Ive given it to her. I dont call her out of her name. I do what Im told. I take care of my kids.

    So... I just don't get it.
     
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