If I may.
99.99999% of the time in the mixed staff period the icon a staff member held in relation to the icon of the person reported or reporting made no difference in their decisions. And if it did, that became apparent and was handled.
Although I think everyone, Catholic and Non-Catholic understands that between all Congregations and such there are things we do not understand about each other. I honestly ask, as a former staff member and someone who worked fairly hard for OBOB, that if you are reported and feel that the issue is a division in understanding that you handle it with charity and understanding with the mod. In that way, if it is a gap in understanding each other, then we will grow more in the understanding of each other.
But realize that the icon they wear has no bearing on whether a rule is broken or not. The understanding of our Church can only provide mitigating circumstances in resolving the why something was done and preventing future incidents. But if mods are ignored in trying to enforce the rules then things will spiral to a place where, I pray, no one wants them to be.
The lack of a larger Catholic staff is troublesome. Gwenyfur is right that Catholics are not applying for staff positions. For that there is a myriad of reasons that range from old issues from this board, old issues from other boards to the fact of how vilely we are treated around the internet in general on mixed Christian group message boards.
That last factor is also a reason many of you have trouble trusting the mods with different faith icons here. Almost everyone here has had the experience of being on other Christian sites and being treated, well...in ways that are very personally heartbreaking. Set apart from those places was always OBOB. It was different in that we could be Catholic here without being constantly attacked. Some of you may feel that has slipped. Let me comment on that.
A few years ago the anti-Catholic troll problem was much worse than it is now...or at least was when I left staff. By a massive amount. Today, anti-Catholic trolls are dealt with quickly and fairly. Honestly so quickly that you don't see many of them. Only general staffing levels prevent quicker response...and even so, the response is fast.
Over the years Catholics here have built a home. One that older members and more active members respect. It has given us a benefit of the doubt we do not have anywhere else on a mixed Christian site. That helps.
Where there is trouble now, is when it arises from
Catholic to Catholic interaction that the mods need to police, not from some anti-Catholic agenda. It is far easier, though wrong, for us to say that they don't understand our "family" squabbles because they are not one us than to reflect that we are often treating each other with such a lack of charity that it violates the rules.
Now, I am not denying there are times when misunderstanding Catholic thought on an issue makes a huge difference. But, sadly, there is not much that can be done about that with few Catholics applying to be mods...or, let's be honest, continuing to participate on this site in the numbers they used to. There are reasons for all of that ranging far and wide. But none of them justify ignoring someone who has the authority to enforce site rules because they wear a different icon.
We exist here on CF in three different ways. Listed from broad to narrow.
- As members of CF who are bound by site rules
- As fellow Christians to others who are held by an expectation of charity in that regard
- As Catholics in OBOB who have our forum guidelines that let us express ourselves and our faith
Now, in importance people may move those around, I listed them broad to narrow. Feel free to hold them in importance as you wish. But...know that the mods are looking first and foremost at one: "As members of CF who are bound by site rules"
The other two may mitigate decisions, but they do not excuse any and all behavior. That is the viewpoint of a mod...Catholic or non-Catholic.
Many feel the old place is different. And it is.
But many of the differences honestly lie in our behavior to each other and not the icon of the moderating staff.
Just my view from having been on both sides of this in many different situations. I can say with total honesty, with the exception of a small handful of issues, any disagreements I ever had with issues of moderation or administration were differences of opinion one to one and not involved with Congregation differences or lack of understanding. Now, I need to add that there does need to be someone of a few someone's who can represent each groups view and concerns in relation to having good FSG's or dealing with special issues. I do not know how that works right now, so I can not comment.
Understand. The mods you have work very hard. If you feel an issue revolves around a point where a better understanding of the Catholic faith will mitigate or illuminate your actions. Tell them. But do not expect it to justify a flame or direct breaking of the rules. And that should be the same with a Catholic or non-Catholic mod.