- Oct 7, 2018
- 14
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- Country
- United States
- Faith
- Christian
- Marital Status
- Private
Hello everyone.
I imagine that I'm not the only person struggling with this, but I am a 16-year-old girl and rather introverted. Although I won't push people away when trying to start a conversation, I'm not normally the type to go up to people and say "hello". I try to be friendly nevertheless, planting seeds of friendship, however, I haven't yet found any Christian friends that I can truly lean on and talk to. I haven't yet found one or two friends that are solid enough in the faith that they can build me up as I hope to build them up.
Call me a dreamer, but I've been searching for faithful friends who I can not only talk to about the bible and pray and get deep with, but also someone I can go out and see a movie or the mall with, or just out for a stroll in town on a regular basis. I've been looking for a brother or sister in Christ that I can honestly say is my best friend and not have to worry about being unequally yolked, disagreeing on concrete things like who God is, or feeling like we're drifting or don't have time to spend with each other.
Although I do have a few friends that are Christian and who I go to for support, all of them are busy people with not much else in common besides our faith. Two of them are college students who are too far from me to spend time with, though they're always open to me if I need help over the phone. The other friend is also introverted. We have more to talk about with each other like anime and k-pop, but we don't see each other often at all because we go to different schools and are not always able to attend bible study. She also isn't as open with me as I have been open to her and she has had a few dips in her faith that for one reason or another, she wouldn't talk to me about.
I probably sound very picky at this point having written three paragraphs about what I'm looking for in a friend, but all I really want is this:
- Someone I can discuss the word with, in a fun, non-awkward way
- Someone I can also laugh with and talk to about light-hearted, stupid stuff as well as serious and deep stuff
- Someone that is constant and will spend time or talk to me regularly
Being a teenager in junior year really isn't easy and there aren't many people that I know that I can say for sure that they are 100% Jesus freaks like me. Life is racing at me and I've come to realize that I'm on the battlefield without any true comrades. I'll keep praying about it and perhaps God will bring someone to me that meets my hopes and dreams. Maybe he'll bring someone that I need in my life but may not meet all the points. Whatever the case, I'll just be glad to have a holy spirit-filled friend that I can trust and partner with.
I imagine that I'm not the only person struggling with this, but I am a 16-year-old girl and rather introverted. Although I won't push people away when trying to start a conversation, I'm not normally the type to go up to people and say "hello". I try to be friendly nevertheless, planting seeds of friendship, however, I haven't yet found any Christian friends that I can truly lean on and talk to. I haven't yet found one or two friends that are solid enough in the faith that they can build me up as I hope to build them up.
Call me a dreamer, but I've been searching for faithful friends who I can not only talk to about the bible and pray and get deep with, but also someone I can go out and see a movie or the mall with, or just out for a stroll in town on a regular basis. I've been looking for a brother or sister in Christ that I can honestly say is my best friend and not have to worry about being unequally yolked, disagreeing on concrete things like who God is, or feeling like we're drifting or don't have time to spend with each other.
Although I do have a few friends that are Christian and who I go to for support, all of them are busy people with not much else in common besides our faith. Two of them are college students who are too far from me to spend time with, though they're always open to me if I need help over the phone. The other friend is also introverted. We have more to talk about with each other like anime and k-pop, but we don't see each other often at all because we go to different schools and are not always able to attend bible study. She also isn't as open with me as I have been open to her and she has had a few dips in her faith that for one reason or another, she wouldn't talk to me about.
I probably sound very picky at this point having written three paragraphs about what I'm looking for in a friend, but all I really want is this:
- Someone I can discuss the word with, in a fun, non-awkward way
- Someone I can also laugh with and talk to about light-hearted, stupid stuff as well as serious and deep stuff
- Someone that is constant and will spend time or talk to me regularly
Being a teenager in junior year really isn't easy and there aren't many people that I know that I can say for sure that they are 100% Jesus freaks like me. Life is racing at me and I've come to realize that I'm on the battlefield without any true comrades. I'll keep praying about it and perhaps God will bring someone to me that meets my hopes and dreams. Maybe he'll bring someone that I need in my life but may not meet all the points. Whatever the case, I'll just be glad to have a holy spirit-filled friend that I can trust and partner with.