One of the hardest things to do in life is forgive someone who has hurt us! Pain is real and seems to never go away. If you look back at a time in your life when someone hurt you, you can still feel the pain as though it just happened! This is why we hate to talk about times in our life when someone hurt us.
In the model of prayer, Jesus teaches us to ask God to forgive us our sins, as we have forgiven those who have sinned against us. This passage shows that we can be sinned against and we can sin against others and not just God. When others hurt us, they sin against us and we are called to forgive them! You see, we forgive others, not only because God tells us to, but when we forgive others, it frees our hearts from the torment we would carry for the rest of our lives.
When we are hurt, the one who hurt us, rarely feels any pain from their actions towards us. And many have zero recollection of causing us pain. We can sit around waiting our entire lives for a heart felt apology but lets be honest; that apology most likely will never come.
We feel the pain of the hurt the second it happens and that pain stays with us forever. We forgive those who hurt us, not because they deserve it, but because WE deserve it. Forgiveness destroys the pain that never goes away!
For many, forgiveness seems to be an impossible notion only because they don't exactly know what forgiveness is. Many people think that forgiving someone is saying, "I'm ok with what you did to me." or "What you did to me is ok." This is never what forgiveness means! When God forgives us, He is not saying that He is now cool with what we have done. What He is saying is that He will not punish us for what we have done. Not only that, but God will no longer remember what sins we have committed.
Forgiveness is saying, "Jesus, please don't punish them for what they did to me. I don't want them punished, instead, change their hearts to look like yours!" That is what forgiveness is! It is releasing that person from the punishment they deserve, and asking God to change them to look like Him!
If someone hurts me, I try to understand that they are hurting me from some pain that they carry in their hearts. Then my desire for them is to have their heart free from whatever torments them. Then of course, I want their heart to look just like Jesus's. I would rather see everyone changed to look like God than to be punished for any sin they commit against me!
It is extremely hard to look back at a time when someone hurt us, but to have freedom, we have to go back to that time and forgive them. I have done this on so many occasions and I can promise you form experience, that God will free your heart form the pain and torment you have carried around your entire life!
Your forgiveness is not just limited to those who have hurt you, forgiveness is also for you to forgive yourself!!!!! We all have times we have messed up caused someone pain. The pain of causing this hurt in someone else can devastate us! Forgive yourself! Ask God to change your heart to look like His. Ask Him to bless the person you hurt so that His blessing and Love will erase the pain they carry. It is OK to forgive yourself, You have to! Your heart is too valuable to carry so much pain!
Forgive others, Forgive yourself, Free your own heart, Because you deserve it and you are worth it!!!
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In the model of prayer, Jesus teaches us to ask God to forgive us our sins, as we have forgiven those who have sinned against us. This passage shows that we can be sinned against and we can sin against others and not just God. When others hurt us, they sin against us and we are called to forgive them! You see, we forgive others, not only because God tells us to, but when we forgive others, it frees our hearts from the torment we would carry for the rest of our lives.
When we are hurt, the one who hurt us, rarely feels any pain from their actions towards us. And many have zero recollection of causing us pain. We can sit around waiting our entire lives for a heart felt apology but lets be honest; that apology most likely will never come.
We feel the pain of the hurt the second it happens and that pain stays with us forever. We forgive those who hurt us, not because they deserve it, but because WE deserve it. Forgiveness destroys the pain that never goes away!
For many, forgiveness seems to be an impossible notion only because they don't exactly know what forgiveness is. Many people think that forgiving someone is saying, "I'm ok with what you did to me." or "What you did to me is ok." This is never what forgiveness means! When God forgives us, He is not saying that He is now cool with what we have done. What He is saying is that He will not punish us for what we have done. Not only that, but God will no longer remember what sins we have committed.
Forgiveness is saying, "Jesus, please don't punish them for what they did to me. I don't want them punished, instead, change their hearts to look like yours!" That is what forgiveness is! It is releasing that person from the punishment they deserve, and asking God to change them to look like Him!
If someone hurts me, I try to understand that they are hurting me from some pain that they carry in their hearts. Then my desire for them is to have their heart free from whatever torments them. Then of course, I want their heart to look just like Jesus's. I would rather see everyone changed to look like God than to be punished for any sin they commit against me!
It is extremely hard to look back at a time when someone hurt us, but to have freedom, we have to go back to that time and forgive them. I have done this on so many occasions and I can promise you form experience, that God will free your heart form the pain and torment you have carried around your entire life!
Your forgiveness is not just limited to those who have hurt you, forgiveness is also for you to forgive yourself!!!!! We all have times we have messed up caused someone pain. The pain of causing this hurt in someone else can devastate us! Forgive yourself! Ask God to change your heart to look like His. Ask Him to bless the person you hurt so that His blessing and Love will erase the pain they carry. It is OK to forgive yourself, You have to! Your heart is too valuable to carry so much pain!
Forgive others, Forgive yourself, Free your own heart, Because you deserve it and you are worth it!!!
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