So I've been struggling with really bad scrupulosity for many years, and it's taken me a long time to recover from it. Throughout my years with scrupulosity, it's caused me to live very legalistically when it came to my faith. It was always "I have to do this" or "It's a sin if I don't do something like this" or even "you did something good, but it could've been better." To keep it simple, I basically lived a life of faith by works to an extreme, and it sucked the life out of me. After many years I've learned how to cope with it, and I've slowly been able to get it under control. Right now I would say I'm in a recovery state where I can almost live a normal life, or so it seems.
I thought I could eventually live a normal life without it hindering my daily activities, but it still affects even the simplest of tasks. I've become so used to the subtle ways it affects me that I don't often notice how debilitating it is. Not to mention how some situations can trigger old legalistic habits. All of this has made me very weary and exhausted, so I end up spending a good chunk of my time just trying to maintain myself and, well, surviving. This is where the crux of my issue lies.
The Bible talks heavily about being proactive and not to grow idle in both your lifestyle and faith, and I honestly don't know how to react given my situation. I've spent so much of my life trying to work for my salvation, and now when I'm starting to get better focus on improving my mental health, it starts to feel like I'm becoming idle. Even though I spend most of my time alone, I still try to do godly works where I can like studying the Scriptures, helping people when the situation arises, and just being an overall good person, but it still feels like it's not enough. The more I try to do, the more it feels like I'm falling back to my old legalistic ways. On the flip side, if I stop forcing myself to do all these works, then it starts to feel like I'm becoming idle in my faith. Sometimes it even feels like I'm losing my relationship with God, and nothing scares me more than the thought of this. It's this constant spiral of feeling like I'm not doing enough and doing too much, and it's so exhausting. I'm just not sure what to do at this point.
I thought I could eventually live a normal life without it hindering my daily activities, but it still affects even the simplest of tasks. I've become so used to the subtle ways it affects me that I don't often notice how debilitating it is. Not to mention how some situations can trigger old legalistic habits. All of this has made me very weary and exhausted, so I end up spending a good chunk of my time just trying to maintain myself and, well, surviving. This is where the crux of my issue lies.
The Bible talks heavily about being proactive and not to grow idle in both your lifestyle and faith, and I honestly don't know how to react given my situation. I've spent so much of my life trying to work for my salvation, and now when I'm starting to get better focus on improving my mental health, it starts to feel like I'm becoming idle. Even though I spend most of my time alone, I still try to do godly works where I can like studying the Scriptures, helping people when the situation arises, and just being an overall good person, but it still feels like it's not enough. The more I try to do, the more it feels like I'm falling back to my old legalistic ways. On the flip side, if I stop forcing myself to do all these works, then it starts to feel like I'm becoming idle in my faith. Sometimes it even feels like I'm losing my relationship with God, and nothing scares me more than the thought of this. It's this constant spiral of feeling like I'm not doing enough and doing too much, and it's so exhausting. I'm just not sure what to do at this point.