- May 24, 2018
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I wasn't going to post about this at first because when it happened the first time, I was going through a difficult time, I was worrying about the future (something I often do, but know I shouldn't and can't help it) and my mother had too much to drink and she started talking to me about my spirituality and my personal journey/relationship with Jesus.
She started questioning me, demanding to know what I'd learned about God thus far (now keep in my mind my mother is a believer, but she doesn't go to church and some of her behaviors such as drinking have yet to change among other things). She's always talking about spiritual stuff, mostly when she's had a few drinks, and I'm aware of everything she's told me as we used to have bible study with our grandmother (God rest her soul). So it's not like she's telling me anything I don't already know from back then or now.
Now usually when she's like that, I can easily ignore her and even if she does go to far and makes me angry I bounce back pretty quickly because as I've said she was intoxicated.
I told her I didn't want to talk about this anymore because she was drunk and I didn't like talking to her when she was and to leave me alone. She didn't of course and so I decided to leave.
Now I was fine, up until she started hugging me, I don't know what happened at that moment but something snapped and I just felt this intense discomfort and what only feels right to describe as anger. I tried to ignore it over the next two days, but I couldn't. Something happened and eventually it started to fade away and I was fine again. Until yesterday.
I bought a book that I thought was about Christian Living and she started talking to me about it and how I need to stop buying books (I only have two, the one I mentioned and a little daily devotional type book called 'Jesus Calling' by Sarah Young) and read my bible and let God speak to me and stuff which i understand. But I'm also trying to seek Christian counsel as best as I can right now not belonging to a church and not being able to go to one right now even if I did, not having friends, and my grandmother who was the most spiritually inclined out of us all has passed. I tried to explain that to her, but she doesn't listen. She was sober this time by the way, she'd had a few beers, but not enough to intoxicate her really.
The feeling returned.
What worries me is I don't know what's causing it. It's not like this is my first rodeo with this situation, I deal with it more often than not.
Why am I so angry? What's wrong with me? I even began to wonder if maybe I'm possessed and the evil in me doesn't want to hear what she has to say. Or maybe I just don't like having my standing with God questioned?
She started questioning me, demanding to know what I'd learned about God thus far (now keep in my mind my mother is a believer, but she doesn't go to church and some of her behaviors such as drinking have yet to change among other things). She's always talking about spiritual stuff, mostly when she's had a few drinks, and I'm aware of everything she's told me as we used to have bible study with our grandmother (God rest her soul). So it's not like she's telling me anything I don't already know from back then or now.
Now usually when she's like that, I can easily ignore her and even if she does go to far and makes me angry I bounce back pretty quickly because as I've said she was intoxicated.
I told her I didn't want to talk about this anymore because she was drunk and I didn't like talking to her when she was and to leave me alone. She didn't of course and so I decided to leave.
Now I was fine, up until she started hugging me, I don't know what happened at that moment but something snapped and I just felt this intense discomfort and what only feels right to describe as anger. I tried to ignore it over the next two days, but I couldn't. Something happened and eventually it started to fade away and I was fine again. Until yesterday.
I bought a book that I thought was about Christian Living and she started talking to me about it and how I need to stop buying books (I only have two, the one I mentioned and a little daily devotional type book called 'Jesus Calling' by Sarah Young) and read my bible and let God speak to me and stuff which i understand. But I'm also trying to seek Christian counsel as best as I can right now not belonging to a church and not being able to go to one right now even if I did, not having friends, and my grandmother who was the most spiritually inclined out of us all has passed. I tried to explain that to her, but she doesn't listen. She was sober this time by the way, she'd had a few beers, but not enough to intoxicate her really.
The feeling returned.
What worries me is I don't know what's causing it. It's not like this is my first rodeo with this situation, I deal with it more often than not.
Why am I so angry? What's wrong with me? I even began to wonder if maybe I'm possessed and the evil in me doesn't want to hear what she has to say. Or maybe I just don't like having my standing with God questioned?