- Jan 18, 2013
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hubby recently got a phone call from his sister, telling him she and her husband as well as their two daughters would like to visit us at our cabin when we are taking our family holiday at end of this month.
neither me and hubby is thrilled with this prospect, and here is why
Sister in law's two daughters are 12 and 11 respectively, and both of them are essentially little mean girls. They are very polite and well mannered and even charming to your face, but love playing games and is just downright rude when they think they are out of your earshot
a typical example happened last year's Christmas, when i saw their daughters doing a rude impression of hubby and laughing their heads off when they thought no one was around.
i told hubby and my mother in law this and mother in law did brought up this with sister in law, but sister in law basically denied her darlings would ever do something like this ( this is a lie as she has seen her own daughters doing mean things to others).
so me and hubby are thinking about saying no, because neither one of us like having those two little rude girls disrespecting us in our own house!
but we disagree on how we should explain to his sister.
hubby wants to make an excuse to keep peace.
i told hubby we should just be honest, their two girls are who they are, there is no need to beat about bush on this matter......
any advice would be appreciated.
thank you
neither me and hubby is thrilled with this prospect, and here is why
Sister in law's two daughters are 12 and 11 respectively, and both of them are essentially little mean girls. They are very polite and well mannered and even charming to your face, but love playing games and is just downright rude when they think they are out of your earshot
a typical example happened last year's Christmas, when i saw their daughters doing a rude impression of hubby and laughing their heads off when they thought no one was around.
i told hubby and my mother in law this and mother in law did brought up this with sister in law, but sister in law basically denied her darlings would ever do something like this ( this is a lie as she has seen her own daughters doing mean things to others).
so me and hubby are thinking about saying no, because neither one of us like having those two little rude girls disrespecting us in our own house!
but we disagree on how we should explain to his sister.
hubby wants to make an excuse to keep peace.
i told hubby we should just be honest, their two girls are who they are, there is no need to beat about bush on this matter......
any advice would be appreciated.
thank you