- Dec 13, 2015
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I'm pregnant and my fiance doesn't want to let my sister and her family see our baby or come to our wedding. He hates her and her husband. My mom is upset. I'm in the middle.
Two yeara back there was a fight over my boyfriend not communicating with my sister when she walked into a room or communicating with her about paying rent even though he left money in a drawer for rent he didn't communicate he just said she knows there's money in there and I don't have to speak to her it's your mom's house not hers. Even though my sister manages all my.moms finances and things.
Anyway it got way out of hand because my sister snapped and told her husband and then her husband started making threats to my boyfriend and then I jumped in and tried to defend him and said rude things to him so he said rude things right back to me too.
Fast forward and I wrote an apology letter to them for the sake of my mom and making her happy. I also did it with the advice from peoplepon here. I also don't hate my sister or anything like that I just think both my sister and boyfriend are wrong.
Anyway, they weren't even appreciative of the letter. They took it as I never was really sorry or cared because they want an in person apology and they want me to call them and see how my letter was received. They said it wasn't enough. Keep in mind they never said sorry at all to either of us. Not my boyfriend or myself and they made threats to him and called me every name in the book. And I told them clearly that's wrong cause if I didn't care I wouldn't have said anything.
So I mean I kinda see my boyfriend's point with being upset. However like I said he could still try to be nicer to them idk.
Anyway he doesn't want them to have anything to do with the baby and wedding so what can I do?
My mom is upset but of course she sides more with my sister because my sister handles all her money and has control of her house since my sister is 12 years older than me.
Help!!
Two yeara back there was a fight over my boyfriend not communicating with my sister when she walked into a room or communicating with her about paying rent even though he left money in a drawer for rent he didn't communicate he just said she knows there's money in there and I don't have to speak to her it's your mom's house not hers. Even though my sister manages all my.moms finances and things.
Anyway it got way out of hand because my sister snapped and told her husband and then her husband started making threats to my boyfriend and then I jumped in and tried to defend him and said rude things to him so he said rude things right back to me too.
Fast forward and I wrote an apology letter to them for the sake of my mom and making her happy. I also did it with the advice from peoplepon here. I also don't hate my sister or anything like that I just think both my sister and boyfriend are wrong.
Anyway, they weren't even appreciative of the letter. They took it as I never was really sorry or cared because they want an in person apology and they want me to call them and see how my letter was received. They said it wasn't enough. Keep in mind they never said sorry at all to either of us. Not my boyfriend or myself and they made threats to him and called me every name in the book. And I told them clearly that's wrong cause if I didn't care I wouldn't have said anything.
So I mean I kinda see my boyfriend's point with being upset. However like I said he could still try to be nicer to them idk.
Anyway he doesn't want them to have anything to do with the baby and wedding so what can I do?
My mom is upset but of course she sides more with my sister because my sister handles all her money and has control of her house since my sister is 12 years older than me.
Help!!