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What is proper etiquette when addressing and meeting nuns? I’m planning a visit in a couple weeks to a convent near(ish)by, and I wasn’t sure. Do I ask for their blessing as I would with a priest? Do I kiss their hands? I’m rather clueless so any information you all have would be greatly appreciated!
 

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Thanks! Interesting to know about how the Abbess blesses differently from a priest.

greet the abbess first and be obedient to her while you are there. nuns are addressed as Mother, novices as sister.
Thanks. Is there anything I should need to bring besides clothes? (I'm going to bring some gifts as well - the website has a list of needs, but I'm asking more about, should I make sure to bring gardening gloves or something? Idk. That's an odd example but the first thing that jumped to mind haha)

If the priest stationed at the convent is there as well, do I get the Abbess's blessing first, and then the priest's blessing?
 
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if they have a bookstore, bring a desire to purchase something, even if it's small. it's a good way to maintain a connection with that monastery.
 
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Thanks, that's a good thought. It's St Nina's in Maryland, and it'll be in the middle of february so likely quite cold

if they have a bookstore, bring a desire to purchase something, even if it's small. it's a good way to maintain a connection with that monastery.
I know they have a bookstore and sell coffee and prayer ropes, among other things - I was thinking about getting some coffee for my church, for my dad (who is a big coffee drinker), and maybe my sister (we'll see how expensive the coffee is). And I'll probably get a prayer rope for my girlfriend - she's asked about mine a couple times so I figured this would be a good place to get one

but maybe I should bring a little extra to buy something for myself as well, so as to stay connected to the monastery as you say. I'm not sure what that'll be though
 
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Just as an update - the visit was wonderful this past weekend and I'd love to go back sometime. It was such a peaceful and prayerful visit. The chanting was beautiful and it was really nice to just disconnect (I had my phone on airplane mode and only used it as an alarm -- which I really didn't need since there were church bells in the mornings) for the weekend in order to pray, work, and talk with the nuns and priests (and other laity visiting!)

St Nina, pray for us!
 
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