- Oct 4, 2016
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I have a friend who is not EO, who is currently going through a divorce. He is a man but is in abusive relationship where his wife has attacked him physically, and done other bad things described in this thread. (On the surface it looks like she probably has some form of Narcissistic Personality Disorder or other similar mental problem).
Divorce (Is adultery the only justifiable reason for it?)
Anyway his situation has really highlighted the problem of abuse in marriage especially from those stickler people (especially Protestant fundamentalist types) that are strictly "by the Book" (believe that literal adultery is the only valid reason for this). Besides seeing this as a general problem, I really believe that this sort of thing is a "perfect storm" when it happens to men (because people seem to instinctively sympathize with women in these situations but do the opposite for men).
Anyway I was interested in what sort of resources would be available if this happened to an EO guy? I have read that the Church allows no fault divorce, (In his case, I really believe he needs fault divorce). But I'm interested in stuff like Excommunication, or even if the Church would support Restraining Orders against a congregant and other background information. Part of the problem with this issue is lots of people like to be theologically strict on this issue, but unlike the days of the Apostles their is no hands on pastoral care or Ecclesiastical discipline that would balance out such conservativism and protect the innocent party.
Divorce (Is adultery the only justifiable reason for it?)
Anyway his situation has really highlighted the problem of abuse in marriage especially from those stickler people (especially Protestant fundamentalist types) that are strictly "by the Book" (believe that literal adultery is the only valid reason for this). Besides seeing this as a general problem, I really believe that this sort of thing is a "perfect storm" when it happens to men (because people seem to instinctively sympathize with women in these situations but do the opposite for men).
Anyway I was interested in what sort of resources would be available if this happened to an EO guy? I have read that the Church allows no fault divorce, (In his case, I really believe he needs fault divorce). But I'm interested in stuff like Excommunication, or even if the Church would support Restraining Orders against a congregant and other background information. Part of the problem with this issue is lots of people like to be theologically strict on this issue, but unlike the days of the Apostles their is no hands on pastoral care or Ecclesiastical discipline that would balance out such conservativism and protect the innocent party.