- Oct 26, 2017
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- In Relationship
Before becoming a Christian, I was in a very bad place. I was doing things I should not have been and I feel badly about the things I did. I prayed for forgiveness and peace and God gave me the comfort I needed. About two years ago, I was in bad place. I partied a lot. I met my new boyfriend about 4 months ago and things are going extremely well. We both have a love for God and we are getting serious and talking about long term and permanent commitment. My boyfriend knows I have a past, but I told him I did not want to go into specifics at this time (he mainly wants to know who I have been with). He has admitted to me that he also has a past, but honestly, I don't wish to know details. I'm concerned with who he is now as a Christian and not who he was before. I worry that after I tell him details of my past, he will no longer want to be with me. We are from the same hometown and he knows a few of the people that I have been with. Is this something that I should be upfront with him about? What would be the best way to go about this situation? I don't ever want there to be any secrets between him and I, but I am afraid if we both dwell on our pasts, then we can't focus on the future. Also, if he ever asked me specifically if I had been with the person, I would never lie about it. I would tell him the truth. Thank you all in advance for the help.