dreaming of someone else...

[InTheFlame]

*shrug* I dream all sorts of weird stuff. Often I'm someone else and morph into me, or vice versa. I'm fairly sure I've changed gender halfway through dreams too If you want weird, try the classic pregnancy dreams. I don't remember getting these last pregnancy but WHEEEEW... talk about vivid. And sexy. Strangely, they tend to be fairly realistic scenarios too... I wake up and can't tell dream from reality for a few minutes sometimes.

 

[Mr.Cheese]

Pretty often. I don't think anything of them. I don't have erotic dreams though.

 

[mrsperez]

Yes, I have. I felt really guilty about it and prayed afterwards. I did not like it at all!

Same here.

 

[Redguard]

Are we to assume that these dreams involve romance or sex?

Because, if not, I'm not sure what there is to feel bad about.

 

[Cright]

I've had a few dreams where DH was still a boyfriend and caught him kissing someone...

I used to smoke.. so I've also had dreams I smoked and woke up feeling like a total loser for smoking again... but it's been quite awhile since this has happened.

I sometimes wonder if dreams like these are somehow a way the devil plays around in our head with our fears.

 

[Million Pieces]

Just las night I had a dream in which another man was holding me in his arms and whispering my name over and over. In the dream I was content and very comfortable with it, as a matter of fact, in the minutes after I woke, I was left withthe same feeling.

I know for a fact it is related to my feelings of discontent with the amount of affection in my marriage. Looks like I have some repairing to do.

 

[GolfingMom]

Yes

 

[~ Gig ~]

Have you ever woken up from a dream that had someone other than your spouse in it... another woman/man?

Yes, and it's awful!!

 

[Southern Cross]

Ok, lets all be honest. Did any of you have one of these dreams and just roll over and go back to sleep hoping it would continue? Hmmmm?

I mean, if it was like Eva Longoria, I might have to think twice before waking up. But if it was Barbara Bush, I'd wake up sweating bullets and probably end checking myself into an institution somewhere.

In either case, I'd be deathly silent about any dreams. It's NOT something I'd discuss with my wife. No way!

 

[firestar]

I have, and honestly I don't feel bad about it. I'm not trying to, and most often it's people who I find REALLY unattractive (Howard Stern comes to mind- I was like where did that come from??) We weren't physically intimate, but we were a couple. It was really weird. Another time, I was dating Lil' Wayne who I also find ugly. Then there are times when I dream I am still with an exboyfriend and in my dream I'm so depressed because I want to be with my husband and not the other guy. But mostly every night I just dream about sex with hubby- hot kinky sweaty sex with my own sweet heart, so I wake up happy

 

[LynnMcG]

Have you ever woken up from a dream that had someone other than your spouse in it... another woman/man?

Oh yes!

Once, I had the most vivid dream about me and Steven Curtis Chapman. I don't even know if I own any of his CDs, so it's not like I'm some nutty fan. I just had this dream where I was divorced from my DH and married to him! Still cracks me up...

 

[InHisSpirit]

Yes and this is odd and I wanted to ask someone, might as well be here--the night before last i had a sex dream about another man and i woke up , ummm, "very happy". I tought those sort of dreams only happened to men....I feel guilty and horrible, but it was uncontrollable....i dunno....

 

[InTheFlame]

InHisSpirit - nahh, it happens to women too. I don't see the big deal *shrug* ... I don't seek out those types of dreams, I don't create fantasies along those lines... they just happen. Ever dreamt that you were killing someone? Similar thing.

 

[mrsperez]

Are we to assume that these dreams involve romance or sex?

Because, if not, I'm not sure what there is to feel bad about.

That's what I assumed what we were talking about That's why I felt bad.