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@Chrystal-J's point has at least some merit to it. Would anyone say it's a coincidence that all 12 apostles ended up being men, not one a woman?
Of course it's not a coincidence; Jesus chose and called 12 men to be his closest followers.
But that is very far from saying that it shows that women can't preach the Gospel.
It is a fact that Jesus chose a woman to be the first witness to the resurrection.
Women were considered to be unreliable witnesses, and, I've heard, weren't even allowed into a court of law; yet Jesus chose a woman to witness to him.
The 12 disciples were closest to Jesus and would be the ones entrusted with the task of preaching the Gospel and making disciples and were the future leaders of the church - yet they were all hiding in fear, and they weren't the first to hear about the risen Christ.
It was a woman who told them the Good News.
We could reply with the fact that all 12 apostles were Jewish, but again, that isn't coincidental either. Gentiles weren't added to the Christian movement until later (Acts of the Apostles 10-11),
Yet Jesus spoke to, and healed, Gentiles - the Samaritan woman, the Syro-Phoenician woman, the Roman centurion's servant - and told the disciples they would be his witnesses in Samaria and all over the world, Matthew 28:20, Acts of the Apostles 1:8.
so Jesus actually was focusing on just Jews for the apostleship.
There's an obvious reason why all 12 were Jews. Are we to say it's merely coincidental that all 12 were men?
There's an obvious reason why all were men; women were 2nd class citizens in that society. I doubt anyone would have taken Jesus seriously if he had had female disciples. They may have just assumed he had a harem.
This in no way proves that God doesn't want women to preach the Gospel.
God the Father, in his awesome love, sent his only Son to die for our sins, so that we could be reconciled to him, become his children, have a relationship with him and receive his Spirit and every spiritual blessing in Christ.
Jesus told his disciples to preach this message far and wide - are you saying that God is going to be upset if that message is given to others by a woman?