Hi PBA, the Bible, both OT and NT, tells us that God disciplines/reproves those He loves, but He does so for our own good, like the loving Father that he is .. e.g.
Proverbs 3:12; Revelation 3:19; Hebrews 12:4-13. The suffering He allows us to endure may happen as a direct response to certain sinful choices, or to impede future sinful choices in a more general sense so that we might make better choices when we are confronted with them.
As mother, Christian missionary and Christian author Elisabeth Elliot once said:
Our vision is so limited we can hardly imagine a love that does not show itself in protection from suffering.... The love of God did not protect His own Son.... He will not necessarily protect us - not from anything it takes to make us like His Son.
Here, as well, are the opening couple of sentences from Calvin's
Institutes Book III/Chpt IX/Part I that talks about God's use of suffering in a Christian's life:
MEDITATION ON THE FUTURE LIFE
(By our tribulations God weans us from excessive love of this present life)
1. The vanity of this life
Whatever kind of tribulation presses upon us, we must ever look to this end: to accustom ourselves to contempt for the present life and to be aroused thereby to meditate upon the future life. For since God knows best how much we are inclined by nature to a brutish love of this world, he uses the fittest means to draw us back and to shake off our sluggishness, lest we cleave too tenaciously to that love. ~Calvin, J. (2011). Institutes of the Christian Religion 3/9/1 (J. T. McNeill, Ed., F. L. Battles, Trans.)
Yours and His,
David
p.s. - A. W. Pink looks at temporal suffering and another important reason we experience it from a slightly different angle. In the end, the suffering that God allows in the lives of His children should always be recongnized as a blessing, though it hardly feels that way in the midst of the suffering, of course.