Had a question asked of me the other day, "does God love everyone?" I didn't answer right away because I wanted to look up some of the Scriptures that referred to wrath and God (righteously) hating Esau, vessels made for destruction, etc. What I found was that God has love for his own, but not for all mankind.
Arminianism requires God to love everyone in order to maintain that Christ died for all. And then the tap dancing begins with God "loving Esau less" and wrath retranslated into sadness at placing the unbeliever in hell, or just saying that the unregenerate choose hell for themselves in order to let God (and their theology) off the hook. God created us, therefore God must love us. We are supposed to love everyone, therefore God is supposed to love everyone.
But I just don't see a common love of God for everyone in the Bible. I see a King who is a loving Father for those in His kingdom, but not everyone is in his kingdom. Your thoughts?
I want to try to be sensitive to God's people here, and yet still be true to scriptures. What does the word of God say? On the one hand it teaches that God is "good both to the just and unjust" and "kind even to his enemies." On the other hand we read that "God
hates all those who does iniquity" (Psa 5:5), and again..."Jacob I have loved, but Easu I
hated."
I believe scripture teaches that God has a general love for all his creation, but has an intimately love for only his elect (believing ones). Of God's non-elect (non believers), it is said..."I will take vengeance on my adversaries and will repay those who hate me" (Deu 32:41). But, of his elect, it is said..."When iniquities prevail against me,
you atone for our transgressions. Blessed is the one
you choose and bring near, to dwell in your courts!
We shall be satisfied with the goodness of your house, the holiness of your temple (Psalms 65:3-4)!
I love the topic of God's love and the doctrine of Particular Redemption (limited atonement), because I believe if it is understood, it will set the believer ablaze with passion, as they will see that God's love for his own is not a general love which states that God loves his own the same as he loves the coming Anti Christ. Rather, they will begin to see God's love as scripture depicts, namely of a kind of mad and passionate love that has specific persons in mind. Again, it is not the kind of love that suggest that a husband should love and care for every woman the same as he would love and care for his wife, but rather a love that is specifically geared for his own wife. And I promise, believer, if you come to see just a glimpse of this truth (providing it being true), you will understand why some men in a time past, would do some so called "radical" things, like selling themselves into slavery that slaves may hear the gospel and believe.
I believe it is those who know well the love of God, who will live the most radically for Christ. This is NOT to say that those who do not agree won't live radical, God-glorifying and Christ exulting lives. Rather, Im simply stating that those who KNOW God's love for them personally and intimately, will be more inclined to "lose their lives for Christ" and live the most radical.