- Jul 31, 2004
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Happens more and more often these days. Just recently happened in the Christian world. One party in a marriage (many times with children) discovers or decides that they are gay. Then they dissolve the marriage in order to be with a gay partner.
This is often seen as the courageous thing to do.
Homosexuality issues aside, does "becoming gay"* mid-life justify leaving your spouse and breaking apart your family? Think about the other partner in the marriage. They have given up everything to design their lives around the other partner. Is it fair to them that the other partner suddenly decides that they're gay? Is it fair to the children?
We live in a culture where self-expression is the ultimate virtue and the trump card in all decision making. But in times past duty was more important than self-expression or even satisfaction and fulfillment.
So does gay justify divorce?
*"becoming gay" can mean "discovering that you're gay", "deciding that you're gay", "coming to terms with the fact that you're gay" or whatever else can reasonably be comprehended under that term.
This is often seen as the courageous thing to do.
Homosexuality issues aside, does "becoming gay"* mid-life justify leaving your spouse and breaking apart your family? Think about the other partner in the marriage. They have given up everything to design their lives around the other partner. Is it fair to them that the other partner suddenly decides that they're gay? Is it fair to the children?
We live in a culture where self-expression is the ultimate virtue and the trump card in all decision making. But in times past duty was more important than self-expression or even satisfaction and fulfillment.
So does gay justify divorce?
*"becoming gay" can mean "discovering that you're gay", "deciding that you're gay", "coming to terms with the fact that you're gay" or whatever else can reasonably be comprehended under that term.