Simplistic thinking like yours that assumes that is the only method people use is also flawed thinking. Hi pot I'm kettle! If you had asked me a few weeks ago when did I last smack my child I would have responded with I have no idea as it was that long ago. If you are naïve enough to think I have not disciplined my son when he has done the wrong thing in the meantime then perhaps we should not continue this discussion. My son did get a smack the other week for the first time in years. it wasn't done in anger either and most certainly did not hurt him. When I get frustrated and angry I actually walk out of the room and if he follows I have had enough time to say I just need some alone time right now please go back to the other room and then I continue to calm down. Most importantly I model desired behaviour such as when I lectured him about not taking care of things and losing them only to later discover it was me who put his school jacket in the boot of the car not him leaving it in the playground I would then take the jacket to him and tell him where I found it and apologise for blaming him.Complex multilevel problems in society are solved with simplistic easily thought of answers, have you ever noticed that? Just snack kids that will fix everything without introducing new problems..
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