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Life2Christ
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Just out of curiousity, do you trust your pastor? When you are around him do you feel at ease or do you sense something that is "off"? I have been going to a new church since January and the pastor is well-respected and has been preaching for about 30 or so years but there is something about him I can't put my finger on.
ETA: Just a little more info. I don't want to "bear false witness here" so I don't want to accuse anyone. My pastor is divorced which is a total rarity in the church, but I don't blame him for that, his wife could have left him which he has no control over. I dont know the situation behind the divorce. But I saw him yesterday in the park and immediately he (in a friendly manner) offered me his cheek to kiss him. Now mind you, "hello kisses" are normal among Hispanic people. Everyone does it so no biggie for me. But I did not want that kind of relationship with my pastor. I don't want an intimate one like "friends". Is that bad of me?
ETA: Just a little more info. I don't want to "bear false witness here" so I don't want to accuse anyone. My pastor is divorced which is a total rarity in the church, but I don't blame him for that, his wife could have left him which he has no control over. I dont know the situation behind the divorce. But I saw him yesterday in the park and immediately he (in a friendly manner) offered me his cheek to kiss him. Now mind you, "hello kisses" are normal among Hispanic people. Everyone does it so no biggie for me. But I did not want that kind of relationship with my pastor. I don't want an intimate one like "friends". Is that bad of me?