- Feb 19, 2013
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People say everything happens for a reason, how about the people you meet?
I have these friends... I've been avoiding for some time... They're great people... Its just I'm not in a great place ...but they are...
I know they're not judgemental but...
Idk I just feel insecure because were not in the same space... They have degrees and jobs, one a girlfriend and.....I keep fearing one day they'll be too busy for me and leave me behind...so I try to leave them before they leave me ...in a sense.
I don't want to feel the pain of them being too busy for me one day, you know. I just ... I don't know.
I wish I could already be in a good place...like they are :/
Yep. The primary reaction to fear is avoidance. You need to be "anxious for nothing." As long as you fear, you will be avoiding all the best things in life.
RISK HAPPINESS!
To reveal your ideas in public is to risk criticism and change,
To reach out to another is to risk involvement and rejection,
To laugh is to risk offending others or appearing foolish,
To weep is to risk appearing weak or overly sentimental,
To express feelings is to risk exposing your true self.
To trust ..... is to risk betrayal,
To hope ..... is to risk despair,
To try ..... is to risk failure,
To live ... is to risk dying,
To have .. is to risk loss.
So be prudent, but take your risks;
A greater danger is in risking nothing;
By risking nothing, you avoid some trials,
But reap some consequences that are worse:
Without risk, there is no growth or achievement.
A person who risks nothing has nothing and is nothing.
Chained by the illusion of certainty, safety, and security,
the person must forfeit freedom, opportunity, and even love.
- Bruce Atkinson
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