Do you think that we could see someone again?

[sunshine100]

Do you think that we could see someone again?This happened sometime at the beginng of this year, at my church,but some guy was interested in me and I didn't think anything of it,so I just sort of brushed him off,not even realizing that he was interested in me,what are your thoughts on this.

 

[Ttalkkugjil]

Do you think that we could see someone again?This happened sometime at the beginng of this year, at my church,but some guy was interested in me and I didn't think anything of it,so I just sort of brushed him off,not even realizing that he was interested in me,what are your thoughts on this.

There's plenty of fish.

 

[sunshine100]

There's plenty of fish.

There's plenty of fish.

that's very true

 

[yeshuaslavejeff]

Do you think that we could see someone again?This happened sometime at the beginng of this year, at my church,but some guy was interested in me and I didn't think anything of it,so I just sort of brushed him off,not even realizing that he was interested in me,what are your thoughts on this.

Don't look for fish. Especially man's way (nor woman's way), as if 'plenty'.

Instead trust Yahuweh (God) as written. Marriage, if given by Him, is a gift. He has planned and knows all things. Singleness, if given is a gift also. Jesus says accept what He gives ..... He shows us all how to live , married or single.

 

[blackribbon]

The reason to never "brush off" anyone.

If you mean you just didn't act interested, invite him out ... or at least find opportunities to talk to him personally. Making eye contact and letting him know you are making eye contact with a smile is a good way to let a man know you are interested.

 

[Ttalkkugjil]

The reason to never "brush off" anyone.

If you mean you just didn't act interested, invite him out ... or at least find opportunities to talk to him personally. Making eye contact and letting him know you are making eye contact with a smile is a good way to let a man know you are interested.

How is she going to ask him out if she never even sees him again?

 

[blackribbon]

Why is she never going to see him again if he was at her church and was interested only a few months ago?

 

[Ttalkkugjil]

Why is she never going to see him again if he was at her church and was interested only a few months ago?

I'm going by the title of her thread. She doesn't sound all that hopeful.

 

[blackribbon]

I'm going by the title of her thread. She doesn't sound all that hopeful.

I am going by the fact he was at her church...and it couldn't have been more than 3 months ago. If it was just a stranger visiting and he was only interested based on a single passing look, then she has no idea of who he is or if he even was worth spending time with. Which isn't much of a loss, really.

 

[Ttalkkugjil]

I am going by the fact he was at her church...and it couldn't have been more than 3 months ago. If it was just a stranger visiting and he was only interested based on a single passing look, then she has no idea of who he is or if he even was worth spending time with. Which isn't much of a loss, really.

That he hasn't been back in three months suggests that the chances of his return aren't high. It's best for her to cut her losses and move on.

 

[blackribbon]

That he hasn't been back in three months suggests that the chances of his return aren't high. It's best for her to cut her losses and move on.

She didn't say that. Nor did she say she was "tied" to him in such a way that she has any losses to cut her self from. Thinking or hoping isn't bad unless it keeps you from living today.

 

[Ttalkkugjil]

She didn't say that. Nor did she say she was "tied" to him in such a way that she has any losses to cut her self from. Thinking or hoping isn't bad unless it keeps you from living today.

You yourself just posted, "it couldn't have been more than 3 months ago"

 

[blackribbon]

You yourself just posted, "it couldn't have been more than 3 months ago"

She said "This happened sometime at the beginng of this year, at my church," which means no more than 3 months ago ... and wondering about someone you met 3 months ago isn't "not moving on" nor does it mean that you aren't living your life while wondering....especially if she just found out that he was interested...

 

[Ttalkkugjil]

She said "This happened sometime at the beginng of this year, at my church," which means no more than 3 months ago ... and wondering about someone you met 3 months ago isn't "not moving on" nor does it mean that you aren't living your life while wondering....especially if she just found out that he was interested...

It's best for her to move on.

 

[blackribbon]

It's best for her to move on.

You move on from a relationship that ended...not someone you barely knew.

My advice would be to contact him if she knows how to contact him..being prepared that he might not be interested anymore. He isn't likely to ask her out if she has blown him off even if they see each other regularly. If he was just someone passing through her life, then don't waste much time obsessing on it but be open to whoever God brings into her life or back into her life.

 

[Ttalkkugjil]

You move on from a relationship that ended...not someone you barely knew.

My advice would be to contact him if she knows how to contact him..being prepared that he might not be interested anymore. He isn't likely to ask her out if she has blown him off even if they see each other regularly. If he was just someone passing through her life, then don't waste much time obsessing on it but be open to whoever God brings into her life or back into her life.

I'm moving on from this dialogue with you.

 

[sunshine100]

I'm moving on from this dialogue with you.

great idea,you move on and forget about this thread

 

[sunshine100]

I'm moving on from this dialogue with you.

and you just mind your own business and just forget about this thread ok girl,it was stupid of me to create it,and by the way I have moved on,you move on.

 

[usexpat97]

Hunt him down. As a guy, I would be very impressed if a girl did that.

I hunted a girl down once, and got the date.

 

[sunshine100]

She said "This happened sometime at the beginng of this year, at my church," which means no more than 3 months ago ... and wondering about someone you met 3 months ago isn't "not moving on" nor does it mean that you aren't living your life while wondering....especially if she just found out that he was interested...

She said "This happened sometime at the beginng of this year, at my church," which means no more than 3 months ago ... and wondering about someone you met 3 months ago isn't "not moving on" nor does it mean that you aren't living your life while wondering....especially if she just found out that he was interested...

I read everything you posted about me,you know what you can do,you can stop talking about me and forget about this thread,I have moved on,this was a stupid idea to post it.