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Yea, I think that's what he means. We both have certain ''dealbreakers.'' For me, it's cheating and abuse. For him, it's the same, but his idea of cheating is pretty strict. We have been married a little over a year, but to your point,I think people shouldn't let their bodies go, they should want to try their best to remain attractive to their spouse. A lot of divorced people hit the gym when they should have hit the gym during their marriages, but suddenly they find themselves dating again, and they need to get in shape. Why not take that same care of your body when you're married? This is just an example, I know people can have health reasons, but ...think a lot of people let themselves go after 'x' amount of years of marriage, and it's wrong to take your spouse for granted.I am sure that is nice for you, but not everyone has that luxury. It is normal for people to age, gain weight, grow unattractive and it is not uncommon for spouses to find each other sexually unattractive after a few years of marriage. Presumably though your husband says he "wouldn't want to be with" you if this became your case, he doesn't mean that he would want to divorce you?
You mean, if I was viewing inappropriate content, and my husband threatened to leave me over it? I probably would stop viewing it, but maybe he would have made up his mind. People usually don't end marriages over one time occurrences. If he were to leave me, it would be because it would have become an addiction. Marriage isn't a prison, and if you're not treating your partner with respect, then...why stay? Jesus also said that adultery would be a valid reason for divorce, in his eyes.So what would you do?
Would you give in to the temptation to sin, or remain chaste and sexless?
I'm not sure what you mean here?
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